Sextra: Who’s in the Mood for Some Aquarian Loving?

- By Bossip Staff

Happy Friday, Bossip Fam! Lovely Water Bearers, please know you were not forgotten! Last week we fell into the Aquarian cycle of the zodiac and just as this sign is known for being unpredictable, should we thank them for the onslaught of amazing weather we’ve had in the last few weeks? We are now in “Age of Aquarius,” so through these times, it’s been said that this astral sign will be the leaders of the zodiacs! Trendsetters with fearless ambition and an unrelenting sense of responsibility – that’s always been their nature but in their time of leadership things have to change! The need for it is great and never taken lightly, so the Aquarian will be working diligently to come into the person they strive to be – starting with whatever spiritual changes they feel need to take place, realigning their values and expectations along with solidifying their goals and aspirations in terms of their career, family life and the like. In this time, Aquarians mean business and they will stop at nothing to be successful at carrying out all their amazing, genius-like ideas they posses in the vast landscape of their head space.

The Water Bearer is known for being “eccentric” or original with avant garde style, quirky, sophisticated, quit-witted and hilarious! What’s possibly funnier than their jokes is their laughter, it’s infectious and when they let out a big, hearty chuckle, you can’t resist the urge to laugh out loud with them, even if the joke’s on you. Now, even though Aquarians are funny and fun to be around, they are often brutally honest to a fault, so if you don’t want the truth, don’t ask them because it hurts … when you ask an Aquarian. Their words are very honest, calculated and direct – they leave no room for misinterpretation. This is why they’re often accused of being emotionless which is not the case, they’re driven by logic. They’re also hugely opinionated, so once they’ve made up their mind, they’re not budging and it would be in your best interest to agree because they will go to war to convince you that they’re right! If they can’t (after a long court-room stlye debate) they will respect your opinion and agree to disagree because the Water Bearer’s heart and intentions are always genuine and they like to keep their many friends and family in a happy space at all times.

Loving an Aquarian is truly and adventure! They will challenge your thinking on a multitude of levels and, more importantly, be the driving force behind turning thoughts and ideas into reality! The Aquarian is so easy to fall in love with because their eyes are often dreamy and intensely focused when they’re interested. In fact, because their eyes, gazes and stares are so intense, they often overuse them so don’t be surprised that a lot of them wear glasses … nerdy but somehow stylish ones. That loving gaze they have makes one feel as though you’re the only two in the room, you know … that swirling feeling! That swoony, swirly, butterfly feeling carries over into the bedroom with this sign, so be ready for a very intense, yet, comfortable experience. They’re not always in it for physical gain, it’s all mental for them. They are one of the most devoted, committed partners one could ever ask for but if you’re loving an Aquarian, you better keep it fun and interesting! Don’t forget that the Aquarian’s brain is like the ocean – you can’t see where it ends, it’s always in motion and all that space is filled with so many thoughts and ideas; this is why curiosity and boredom tends to get the best of them from time to time. Again, keep it interesting and always be open to try new things! And please don’t try to make them jealous because they think a little differently and in doing this, you might just be reminding them of all the reasons why they want something new and fresh. So, folks, if you have the privilege of loving on an Aquarian, remember intellect will forever trump emotion with these guys, so be smart and keep them thinking!

My best friend is an Aquarius and she tends to be a little on the selfish side. She’s always looking for what will benefit her in any situation instead of supporting others. I love her to death though! She always keeps it real and she will never lie to me about anything. We’ve been friends for a very long time and she will always be a dear friend of mine but I can’t talk to her about everything. If I have an idea for business or something along those lines, she’s the first person I call because she knows everybody and will help me through the process. She’s awesome that way! – Kay, 31

I’m an Aquarius and I get called mean, rude, insensitive. I just don’t deal with nonsense and foolishness, you know what I mean? We can talk and all that but when you start trying to play me or talk like I’m beneath you, it’s a wrap! I don’t do well with crying and all that either. Most people say that I’m a difficult person to get to know but I don’t let everyone in and I’m a very private person. Once I do let you in though, it’s forever. You got a friend for life! – Steve, 35

I’m a Libra and my boyfriend is an Aquarius. I’ve read a lot of times that we’re cosmic soul mates. I love him in a way that I’ve never loved anyone else. I like that we can talk about everything. He’s always willing to communicate and it’s never an overly emotional argument or anything because I think we’re both pretty logical. I like that he gives me my space and I don’t have a problem giving him his either. It’s a good thing because it’s balanced and it allows us time to miss each other. The sex with him is so amazing. We have amazing sex. Some nights we don’t even do it, we’ll just make out and kiss each other for hours and fall asleep. But when it goes down, it goes down. He’s a freak and I love it. – April, 29

Shouts out to all the Aquarians! Happy birthday, Water Bearers!

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  • Miss tahbee

    Everything mentioned here is so true. Aquarians are visionaries and extremely stubborn. Happy birthday to all aquarians!

  • Bunny(formerly Angel/UrHeiness)

    No denying their fun as hell tho..especially combined with us Sagis 😀 😉

  • Candid Canuck

    YA! happy bday to me!

    • Aqua Baby-As freaky As They Come

      Where are you at Candid Canuck, Are you in my neck of the woods or something?!? LOL..I’m a Canuck too!!

  • Denise Pouncy

    im an aquarian…its all true about us… either love us or hate us there is no in between. I’ve never had a boyfriend because im not with the bull. especially if you’re boring and a bore in the bedroom…oh how that kills me! ill never call you again if you are wack in the sack! just a word of advice to those who decied to date us…..please give us mental simulation because that will get us going.another thing we will be faithful to you just don’t mess us over because if you do its a wrap and you will nec\ver hear from us again. remember that and everything will be great!


      That’s what I LOVE about Aquarians, the ones that I know are EXTREMELY intelligent.

      Damn I hate dumb people.

  • Denise Pouncy

    yo i hatebrokepeople…i do love weed….lol your right about that! im at my best when im high for some strange reason!!!!! i dont get it but at the end of the day who cares! lol

  • Aqua Baby-As Freaky As They Come

    Ya’ our lovemaking is mental, phenomenal. It’s a trip alright, you will never be the same after. We will possess your heart, your body, your soul and everything in between.Now if only i can rid me of these damn stalkers now!! hahahaha..

  • suga

    I am also an Aquarius, and all of the above statements about us is sooooo true! Often misunderstood we are. Happy birthday to us!

  • Sanriobaby =^.^=

    @Denise Pouncy

    I’m an Aqua baby too and everything you stated is right on point! Fiercely loyal but don’t betray us or we “X” you out and never look back. Quirky, cool, honest to a fault, sarcastic, intellegent, and sweet is what I’m about. Ignorance, stupidity, lack of common sense, and a lack of loyalty and compassion are a major no-no for me. But so far, no one’s mentioned the fact that so many of us are a condradiction to ourselves, which makes for a comical and sometimes fustrating situation. That’s why you either love or hate us! BTW, my hubby is a Libra and he is my perfect match on every level.


    WE ARE AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Sanriobaby =^.^=

    The description is sooooo true! As an Aqua baby, a mental connection is first and foremost, and my loyalty runs as deep as they come, but if you betray that trust, you become non exisitant- permanently, no matter how much I care. No one has mentioned that most Aqua babies are a real contradiction to themselves, which makes for a comical and oftentimes, fustrating situations. We can drive our loved ones crazy, but our quick sense of humor and charm smoothes things out every time. My hubby is a Libra and he is my perfect match for me!

  • JustAshley

    The last guy I dated was an Aquarius. He was so artsy and had a lot of trouble being still.
    We got along well and he was really funny BUT, he CLEARLY wasn’t done dealing with the heartbreak of his divorce and I am not interested in being the “rebound chick”.

  • The Beautiful One

    I love being a Aquarius… 🙂

  • Toni

    Thanx!!!! Happy Bday to me! I love being an aquarian! Thee coolest sign of all lol even tho sometimes we can be stuck in our ways n also like to just tell it like it is n may get criticized for being so frank….but to know us is to love us! =) Happy Bday all my Aquarians!!! Muah!

  • candy karma

    I can’t disagree with your statement

  • candy karma

    Happy Birthday to my fellow Aquarians!!! Everybody take a moment of silence for all the Aquariuses in the world…

  • Harsh Realm

    I can’t mess with Aquarian women. They’re too flaky and like to play too many headgames. it’s ironic that they are called aquarius since they aren’t water signs.

  • sexygrandmom

    Ilove being an Aquarian.We are an enigma and we do not have a jealous bone in our body.

  • Seroou

    Age of AQUArians….its crazy what they were saying about feeling like they want their goals fullfilled. Thats what i feel like right now. I have professional and personal goals that i want to accomplish & i wont stop at nothing to accomplish them.

  • PrincessD.I.E


    That description is so head on I feel like they are talking about

    Just recently someone called me flaky and that I’m hard to actually get to know but I do indeed love my privacy and is pretty selective on who I invite into my life!I truly do appreciate being alone in my own world…

  • kai

    I just despise generalizations..I’m Aquarius, but the comment about being “flaky” is really just relative..Maybe if people werent insecure, they wouldnt have room to label others…

    Either way..Happy bday to Aquarius…

  • paigey

    I too love being an aquarius…ie oprah…lol and just like the above poster said we are a contradiction to ourselves but i feel its mainly because we have too many thoughts running through our mind and can not put the focus on just one thought….my best friends have now learned the skills but i am a subject jumper…you just have to follow my flow…and yes we are soooo loyal and give many relative chances but once its done its done we never go back i have the same friends ive had since diaper….sometimes i think its a bad thing why is it so hard for me to make new friends…but then i look at people especially women who have new best friends every three months and im glad i was born ….1/26/87 babay

    • simone

      omg im completely with u on this comment!!! i’ve always been able to tell a real friend from a foe. Its so weird how ppl can just have phoney friends and not care.

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  • simone

    i love AQUARIANS and maybe its because I am one!!!!! I totally get that business thing Im always thinking of businesses i could start once Im dont with my 8 year army plan. We love making lists, being straight forward, and being FREE!!!! I absolutly love being an Aquarian!!!

  • Allie

    Lol i enjoyed reading these comments, happy b-day to all aquarians out there

  • cee

    OMG…this article is so on point. I am exactly like this.

    I’ve been called cold..mysterious..a freak..but to those that know and love me…i’ve been called the best friend anybody could evr have.

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