Touchy subject! If you saw your friend’s spouse creeping, would you tell him/her? Why or why not?
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Isnt this the same thing they posted the other day
NICE NEWS !
My friend Vanessa, a 25 yrs lady, has announced her wedding with a m’illionaire young man Ronald who is the CEO of a MNC. It’s amazing, she said she just posted her profile on a m’illionaire d’ating s’ite called ———-RichMatchmaker. ℃○M——– – and received his chat invitations a few days later. Then, everything went so well that I can’t believe it’s true! Every love story will unfold on it’s own..——-Not at all. Instincts already tell you when something is wrong. I’ll just be there to listen when she discovers it.
The question is “WOULD YOU TELL HER BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND THAT THEY’RE BEIN’ CHEATED ON?”
Or does that go against the SISTA-HOE SOLIDARITY code?
I have and ya know what??! It was the same “KILL THE MESSENGER” type reaction.
I say “observe everything but say nothing.”
Btw, that redbone in that pic got some serious DSL’s.
Yes! I would tell my friend his/her man/woman is cheating because I am a great friend to have, yep! ; D
Someone who will not even inform you of a cheating mate is not your friend at all. Please drop that person with the quickness…
I tried doing that already and she told me I was jealous of her relationship with her boyfriend. I just left it alone, and left her a@# to look stupid. When she came to me and she found out I didn’t say anything because she picked him over me and stop talking to me because of him. when she tried to talk to me about him I shut her a@% down.
I have told a friend before that his girl was cheating and they both ended up getting mad at me. Now, all my “real friends” are dead presidents and I keep them in my pocket, where I can count on them.
I’ve been in that dilemma before and told my friend that her boyfriend was cheating. Fortunately, my friend handled the matter in a very mature way. However, many females feel that they can not tell their female friend(s), because they automatically a.ss.ume that a) their friend will accuse them of being jealous or b)wanting their man. I would think that if two women have a sincere and honest friendship it should not be an i.ss.ue. In addition, why would a person continue a friendship with someone if they feel that they can’t be open and honest with them?
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there has been alot of slow sing’n and flower bring’n for folks that been caught-up in the [cheat’n] in the next room—– game. the heart just can’t take it and you are putting peoples lifes on the line. no i would keep it to myself. my niece seen my ex-wife creep’n and went back and told her g-mother what see saw. and my mama’s reply was if you tell him i’ll kill you. keep it to yourself.
@ freddyflo, now that’s real talk!
No. You can spot a ho a mile away. Male or female. Quiet and loud ones.
Nope !! Why would I wanna bring drama to my friend and she’s still gonna turn around and be with the guy … Everything under the sun come’s to the LIGHT !! Aman
Nope! did it and lost a friend, would never do it again, you’re on your own with that one. Most times they know anyway!
Actually, it happened to me more than once. I’ve learned it depends on the type of friendship you have with the person.
Friend #1–We found something which would make her question her husband’s fidelity. Long story short, we BOTH caught him out there. I think she handled it with dignity and decorum ’cause personally, I wanted to punch him DEAD in the back of his head.
Friend #2–Not as close but YUP, I told. This chicca thought that errbody was jealous of her and trying to throw shade on her and her “man” that is–until the bytch caught the “claps!”
This goes for everyone…I’d just drop hints like maybe you should wake up earlier…maybe we should hang out at such and such a place…maybe you should be lookin’ into different things and not base your decisions around your bf/gf. Stuff like that.
Nope!! Been there. Done that…. and won’t do it again.
I sure would. I would sing like a canary. Why would I go around knowing something about my friend’s life that she didn’t even know? I would tell her right after I let him know what I know.
Not at all. Instincts already tell you when something is wrong. I’ll just be there to listen when she discovers it.
Co-sign. Women know when something up. If I know she already know. I will just sit and wait for her call. The one time I did tell a friend what was up with her dude she got mad at me. Never again.
It all depends on your friendship and if they are consider a true friend. The close friend i have i will tell her when something aint looking right. I would say “girl you know i love you” but somthing aint right. She will do the same because you know its coming from a good place. Once you know the pattern of your friendship and the value of it, it should not be a problem.
I would tell her/him b/c I wouldn’t be a real friend if I didn’t. But you may have one of those friends who doesn’t want to know. They may get angry w/ you just for telling them the truth. In some cases it’s a catch 22: they’ll be mad if you knew & didn’t tell them or you told as soon as you found out. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. The ? is, what if you were friends with a couple & one of them was cheating? Would you tell or go to the cheater & force them to come clean?