Sextra: Who’s In the Mood For Some Aries Lovin’?

- By Bossip Staff

Happy Saturday, Bossip fam! A few weeks back we fell into the Aries cycle of the zodiac. The fiery ram is the first astrological sign – often referred to as the “baby” of the astral rotation – this may explain why people are so drawn to them. They are quite like a giggling, carefree baby that you can’t help but stop and make silly faces with as you say, “Awe, so cute” and in that moment you are reminded of the feeling of joy. That’s the innocent, natural charm they have about them, they can grasp the attention of anyone in the room and seduce them with their wit and youthful perspective. The ram tends to have the “you make me feel like a teenager again” effect on people and possesses the ability to arouse the less jaded, rosy parts of the people surrounding them. Perhaps, it’s their fearlessness and the absence of worry that keep them so vibrant and full of life? Speaking of fearlessness … as children, the Aries is often the kid with countless bumps, bruises and battle scars and will almost always take more than a few hard knocks to the head … just ask one! Oh, and little ram girls are often the quintessential tomboy that grows into the woman who loves sports like one of the guys … just ask one! Anyone close to an Aries will tell you that the adventure is constant with them and you can almost expect the unexpected or some random encounter you won’t soon forget! Just like a ram an Aries is, more often than not, extremely headstrong – a cut to the chase, aim straight for the target type of person. This is a large part of what makes them successful in life and all its endeavors – be it business, personal or pleasurable. They are very direct and candid and leave no room for you to misunderstand what they can do for you and what they expect from you in return. They will always say what’s on their mind and their candor is often mistaken as being cold-hearted or harsh but, more often than not, their intentions are far from cruel. Most of them learn early in life to watch what they say to people and by adulthood they are seasoned poets and know how to use their words to get what they want.

Just as the Aries is likable, there are some things about them that are hard to bear. Let’s refer back to the baby that’s cute and cuddly and makes you smile. Well, just like a baby who doesn’t get what they want when they want it, a ram will throw a tantrum like you wouldn’t believe! They hate to be rejected or hear the word “no” and when things don’t go their way, the ram will buck in a fit a rage and destroy whatever or whoever is obstructing the path to getting what he/she wants. And Aries are notorious for being most destructive with their words. Shamelessly, they will take someone’s deepest, darkest secret and use it against them if it means they’ll gain some sort of emotional leverage in an argument or sometimes it may be just a “ha” moment for them. As childish as it seems, that’s how they are … remember they’re the baby! The Aries is often pegged as being selfish because they think of themselves and their needs first regardless of who it may inconvenience. But, in order to correct this, they have to recognize they have this tendency first, and work hard to place others before themselves. This is difficult for them because they have a hard time admitting when they’re wrong and if they do, in their eyes, the work is done. This astral sign is a late bloomer in terms if maturity but once they “grow up” they are very loyal, calm and discerning. Patience is what you’ll need and learn you have more of when dealing with them!

Sex with an Aries is nothing short of adventurous and primal. There is something about this sign that like things to be in their raw form – no pretense, no over the top lingerie, no extra toys, no make-up; just two sweaty, naked bodies! If you’re angry at the ram, he/she would love for you to punish him/her in the bedroom. If you’re feeling a little aggressive or in the mood for a little rough-play don’t hold back! Don’t forget this sign loves adventure and pushing boundaries. Even though the ram is a leader, they love to be dominated from time to time and they are turned on by a tussle over who will be in the driver’s seat during a steamy session! Though they’re not the most romantic people, they sure know how to make you feel special in those intimate moments! They’re highly instinctive in knowing what feels good to their partner and how to make sure their lover reaches their peak, and they will not stop until they have fulfilled that task! And when it’s all said and done, they are the best spooners … complete with the sweeping of fingertips over your body relishing in the afterglow of good love and all it’s splendor! So, if you have the pleasure of loving on an Aries, remember to keep things fun, fresh and natural – as they do bore easily – but if you keep them guessing, they will remain curious!

My best friend, favorite auntie and my ex-husband are all Aries and I’m a Libra. I’m really into astrology and we’re zodiac polarities so I think I might understand or be a more patient with them a little more than most. They really are good people but they make it hard to love them and once they love you, they love you for life and will go to war for you, no questions asked, regardless of if you’re right or wrong. It’s true! I love all the Aries in my life but I do not need another one because they are a lot of work and are quite demanding. I love them though and there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for them because there’s nothing they wouldn’t do for me. – Jaime, 33

I don’t have any Aries friends and I don’t like them. My mom’s best friend is an Aires and we used to go at it all the time. She used to act so hurt that I didn’t like her, cry the blues to my mom and be all surprised at what I had to say like she I wasn’t supposed to say what was on my mind but she could? I think Aries women are very manipulative, disloyal, selfish and I would never consider one of them a friend to me. I can’t stand an Aires and that’s coming from a Cancer. – Heather, 27

The love of my life was an Aries. Man, we had the most amazing, mind blowing sex, she blew me away! Wow. I know that if we had met in a different space and time we would be perfect for each other. She was just very consumed with scars from her past and she couldn’t see past them enough to receive the love I was offering up to her. Even though I wasn’t the source of her pain, she treated me like I was. I know deep down she’s a wonderful person but she couldn’t see it herself. She blamed everybody else for all her problems but never took the blame for her part in all the things that went wrong in her life … even still she can’t admit when she’s wrong. If she would grow up take responsibility for her sh*t, she would be a beautiful partner but I just don’t see it happening. – Trey, 29

We like to get our way. We’re very giving and good providers but we can be such brats. My husband is an Aries and so am I so it’s like looking in the mirror. He can be very immature and child-like. I can’t stand how bold he can be. We will say hurtful things, and it’ll be the truth, just to get a rise out of you and see what kind reaction we get from you. We don’t like to be questioned but we’ll question the hell out of you. We are the most sensitive and the most insensitive with others. We’ll procrastinate but rush you. We are demanding but, a lot of times, unwilling to give. But that man has my back! Whenever it comes down to it, and I don’t care how mad we are at each other, we are unified and that’s what I love about him. – Kira, 31

My opinion on Aries is they’re all passive aggressive as*holes and they can all pull the trigger. That’s why they’re the first sign, they’re the experimental first child that you have to work all the quirks out on before you can do anything constructive with them. I’ve yet to have a positive first experience with those selfish, hypersensitive yet most insensitive beings. Can’t stand them. – Erin, 26

Shouts out to all the Aries! Happy Birthday!

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  • Nifah32

    This was a very accurate horoscope!!! Whats not to love about an Aries?? We’re so misunderstood, yet u cant get enough of us!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY FELLOW ARIES!!! I LOVE ALL YALL!!!

    • deshawn

      love you too boo! we’re so often hated on simply because of the fact that we are “larger than life.” they’ll get over it tho! : )

  • yvonne

    No bueno, am a Cancer myself and i cant tolerate them. I have zero tolerance for selfish, insensitive people.

    • A.Q

      don,t forget liers, and jealous people,example a so-called gf wasnt thinking about getting married until i did.she try to dress like me but fails at that to.

  • TJ

    i’m an Aries (April 13) & i must say this article describes me perfectly. alot of people don’t vibe with me, especially upon first meeting & i definitely send my lovers on an emotional rollercoaster without having to try hard at all. im more of a dominante aries, and ib hate competition which is why i always go for weaker signs (i’m currently in a 2 year relationships w/ a pisces now). i’d never dated another Aries or fire sign…one of us would end up dead, & it won’t be me!

    • deshawn

      lmao. spoken like a true arian.

  • Miss tahbee

    April 4th. Happy birthday to all fellow arieans!

  • ariestwin2

    lol @ the cancer that can’t stand aries. I guess we don’t mix cuz my estranged husband is a cancer and we can’t stand each other. our passion can be our downfall but we are very loyal. give us aries a chance and you may be pleasantly surprised. but two aries together is asking for trouble.

  • avec

    o=========My friends told me about — Meet’ri`ches .C0- M —–told It’s the be’st pl’ace to me’et Milli’onaire si’ngles. It is the first and best club for wealthy people and their admirers. D’ating CEOs, professional athletes, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, professional models and cheerleaders, and even Hollywood celebrities is an easy experience there…you don’t have to be rich ,but you can meet one there.
    nice experience——-

  • beaabu

    Good article, I’m an aries (march 29) and this here was on point! Bravo boosip! Must share with my. Husband he tells me this all the time…..unlike the article said I can admit when I’m wrong I just hate to do it hh

  • Sara

    My friends told me about — SearchingM illionaire* C0- M —–told It’s the be’st pl’ace to me’et Milli’onaire si’ngles. It is the first and best club for wealthy people and their admirers. D’ating CEOs, professional athletes, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, professional models and cheerleaders, and even Hollywood celebrities is an easy experience there…you don’t have to be rich ,but you can meet one there. 😉
    nice experience——-

  • ShoNuff

    Yeah, we brats,,,,and what??!! Yall still love us!! April 3rd BABY!! And I love all my self-centered Aries!! The World is Yours!! Rock it till the Wheels fall OFF!!

  • iAries

    So very true!!.<3 Aries….March 23rd

  • TyMaestro

    Aires All Day !!!! April 5th baby and my wifey, and my pops, and my side girl, and my mom. Gots to love dem aires!!!!

  • James P.

    Happy Bday to all Aries. Mine was the fifth and my brothers will be tomorrow. Most Aries can get a bad rap for being this and that, but We The Best. If u don’t knock it off hating on us Aries, you will get struck by lightning. I will let you in on a secret to keep an Aries. Do what we want you to do, or what you say u will do cause we never forget. I mean don’t do nothing dumb or smthn to get you locked up , but we really take it serious when we are betrayed cause we are loyal as hell. LA, Al, Chicago, Fl standup. Gotta go, somebody want some of this ram and we do it so good when we feel wanted. Keep your pity sex, we want devotion even if it’s for one night. April 5

    • deshawn


  • jada

    I am an Aries, my birthday was yesterday. This was very on point. I either get along with everyone or I don’t, but I am a very loyal friend to have. Two of my best friends are cancers, we get along great!

    • Delight23

      yep! I responded to another poster that as a Cancer I find Aries to make a great PLATONIC friend. Fun people ❗

      As a female I dated two Aries men and I wasn’t impressed which does not go over well…they believe they are the shyt, so how dare you not see it or past the glitter. 😀

  • Daisy Jay

    If I had to be a different zodiac sign, it would be Aries. They’re very similar to us Scorpios. I don’t know any Aries folks, but they seem pretty cool and I could probably relate to them.

    • Daisy Jay

      I can already picture the epic battles you guys have! When there is an argument and us Scorpios KNOW we’re right, we won’t back down for anybody. You may get ticked off, but at the time, we really don’t give a d@mn lol. When I realize I’m wrong, I’ll admit it. But when I know I’m right and somebody has the nerve to say I’m not, they’ll feel the STING!

      Hope you guys have a happy life and stay together forever! Great pair!

  • Ms. K Rock

    Dang, r we really that bad? (April 14th) i feel like the other horoscope articles didn’t have as much negativity in them but…*shoulder shrug.

    • ms.coya

      I was thinking the same thing they went hard on us ( March 29th)

  • chrissy

    @james p. u couldn’t have said it better my brother, i am an aries also my b-day is the 19th. happy b-day to all my fellow aries ppl. u got to love us we are the best, many ppl wish they could be us, we are the center of attention, we know how to rock your world. when we step into a room we lights it up with our presence, we are very magicial…

    • deshawn

      yup! yup!

  • vandettad

    (April 5) This was very accurate! I hold grudges like nobody else. Oh well.

    • Ridiculous 1

      LMAO! Me too! Once I feel someone has wronged me, we are done!!! Only Jesus can save them!

  • daresay

    Ex-girl is Aries born April 6th. And she was the craziest girl I’ve ever dated. She knew how to push me to the edge to get the best of me. Called her on Wednesday which was her day and we talked for long hours. Awww… I miss her Sri Lankan crazy arse! Happy Birthday boo…xoxo

  • Michele mercer

    Wow… U descibed me to a T!! I’m April 16 th and mos def a true Aries. Bold, direct, loving, loyal but SPOILED, doublestandard and very inpatient. We are the baby of the sign so it takes a very patient levelheaded woman/man to compliment&contained all this fire. I’m blessed to have found that balance in my cancer/leo rising….. Took some hard work and honestly always a work in progress. However a vey rewarding match and as earlier stated once you gain a Aries loyalty….. We are there front& center ready for whatever wrong or right….. We here to fight!!!!!! Find you a Aries, get you 1show em some love,patience&dedication! U’ll have an allie for life

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  • rayray

    I’m an Areis ( April 9th) , today is my birthday! lol , yeah this is soo true lol.

    • Daisy Jay

      Feliz cumpleanos!

  • Key from the City

    This article does sounds a lot like me though I see no problem with putting myself first as long as it is within reason (I am not a martyr for anyone). Happy Birthday to my fellow Aries Rams!

  • Letmekizzu

    Im a Aries (April 7th) this articlel sounds just like me… its crazy…I like the part when it talks about how we don’t like to be questioned and like to ask whole lot of questions, That is soo true…Aslo the whole Loving making part…You got to try it…Its the Happy Birthday to my Fellow Aries…

  • JustMe219

    I’m Aries (April 11)….this is so true! Its either you love us or hate us!

    • deshawn


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