White Women Are #Winning, Step Your Game Up

- By Bossip Staff

A writer by the name of Andrea Michelle published an article in UPTOWN magazine titled, “Why White Women Are Winning.” As you can imagine, black women (if not already) will soon be up in arms defending their “choice” to remain single.

Whether or not (most likely not) they will admit to it, black women generally struggle with admitting to falling short in areas that have proven to be strengths in other groups of women. White women, in particular, marry in far greater percentages than black women; and, more and more of them are marrying black men. Thus, black women who want to get married need to understand that they have to step up their game. Statistics and unbiased observation show that, when it comes to the wives club white women make up the Winners’ Circle. According to the CDC (Center for Disease Control and Prevention):

While 17% of Hispanic and 12% of non-Hispanic white women have not married by age 35, 42% of non-Hispanic black women have not married by this age.

Continue reading at MadameNoire.com

More Stories From Bossip

Comments

  • Did I say that

    White women, on average, look better.

    • I'd DIE for a White Woman

      cosign!!!!!!!

    • Palest Latina

      And age wayy faster too

    • moneymatters

      white women have better jobs and salaries too. white people fire the blacks first all the time to make room for their own kind. the black man is hustleing for housing these days for the most part. we all go to the white man or woman for help so why marry them too or be poor with a black man complaining all the time or going to jail. blk women are tired of the bs. these blk father messed it up by not teaching their sons.

    • Salina

      My friends told me about — SearchingM illionaire* C0- M —–told It’s the be’st pl’ace to me’et Milli’onaire si’ngles. It is the first and best club for wealthy people and their admirers. D’ating CEOs, professional athletes, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, professional models and cheerleaders, and even Hollywood celebrities is an easy experience there…you don’t have to be rich ,but you can meet one there.😉
      nice experience——-
      Good luck to your search.

    • JM@gic(Trini-americans Dont Coon out,leave it for the Afro-americans )

      The reason white,asian women and also latinas are winning is because they go places black women dont like to go,like the beach,Gym and the more black men expand our horizons the further back black women fall

    • ANGRY LARRY

      lmao

  • Christie_love

    This is pure bullshyt,smdh!

  • Aimee

    I am a white woman who is thirty-two and not married. Believe me, those white women are not ‘winning’ — many are getting cheated on and abused. So many of my friends are in miserable situations.

    I plan to stay single and don’t give an eff about statistics. We need to do what we want as women; we are not defined by whether or not we get married.

    • ReallyNotINterested

      Somehow I doubt if you are indeed white. You sound like a sister trying to pose like a snow bunny. Nice try!

  • a rosemary and holy water for the trolls

    The divorce rates are high amongst white people they don’t mention that.

  • white girls have STD's

    Lol puh-leezzzee. Check out my sn.

  • http://stewartsynopsis.com/Site%20Index.htm We"Blacks"AreTheREALHebrewIsraelites

    Wonder why she didn’t address the factual stats that white women have the highest divorce rate. I’d rather take my time and find a good husband than be wifed up 3 or 4 times.

    • Marquis de Sade

      Yeah, better to be a buddin’ Eryka Badu with multiple out of wedlock baby daddies, huh?😆

    • http://stewartsynopsis.com/Site%20Index.htm We"Blacks"AreTheREALHebrewIsraelites

      Maybe that’s good for you, but I don’t remember stating that. I remember stating that I’d rather take my time and find a good husband. Badu is someone you thought of because of who you are and your thought process. I was thinking more along the lines of Malcolm and Betty, or Bill and Camille or Ossie and Ruby Dee.
      I guess I would have to dwell in the shadows to get the same point of view as you, Marquis. You know better to address me. Talk to me when you want to have a honest dialogue and not some bitter one sided empirical view of the world. Unlike you, I love Black people and have the highest hope for all of us. Men and women. You hate Black women, but I’m not here to entertain your demons. Your demons are always seeking me out though. They seem hungry. However, I won’t feed them. Have a nice weekend, m’kay?

    • Marquis de Sade

      (In my Little Shop of Horrors voice) “FEED ME!” “FEED ME!”😀

  • G.M.

    what American women of all races need to do is accept the fact that marriage is no longer a necessity or means what it use to…the idea of marriage is nice, but the generations of now and future ones to come can’t represent what marriage stands for and marriage has been corrupted and used as a means to scam the naive and hopeful, ppl need to stop lying to themselves and face facts…successful men, especially us blk ones aren’t gonna risk our money we had to work 10x as hard to acquire than our white counter-parts, same for women…both men/women need to focus on making their own life happy & interesting and only allowing those who u want apart of it to be in it under ur terms, they dont like it, they can kick rocks…stop expecting marriage, love and happiness from others cuz expectations usually only lead to disappointment

  • big c

    This article is full of Shh there are plenty of over 36 unmarried with 2 or more children. That I know of working for the hospital. The ones that are married are just there for the kids and being cheated on or just have given up. My sisters stay strong God has a man for you.

  • Jenn

    They should’ve added the word “happily” married and I bet that would’ve changed the statistics drastically.

  • 7lady

    Please speak Ms. We”Blacks”! You speak so well and I’m always looking at what you have to say. I’m not as educated and can’t get my point across as well but when I read your comments they’re exactly how I feel. I love black people too and want us all women men and children to do well. Nobody wants to talk about some interventions for the black family all they want to do is attack and argue with each other on here.

    • Marquis de Sade

      Awww, don’t sell yourself so short, darlin’. You’re pretty articulate, considerin’ you’re part of the INFERIOR SEX.😆

  • YokoDMV

    i think sometimes black women take this black guys liking white girls thing wayyy to seriously…ladies, its like shopping you wouldn’t buy all black clothes, you’d get a variety…men like a variety too..still there are more black men marrying black women than interracial couples.

  • 1991 UK Gem of Africa

    OH wow…
    What is the obsession with white people??? They are not SPECIAL.
    Are black women that important to the world for us to be the centre of the universe.

    @Marquis de Sade
    You may not want to admit it but your obsession with black women is quite scary. I know you try to cover it with ignorance but there is a thin line between love and hate😉.

  • forreal

    winning what. they have the highest rate of divorce. so ok, they can get a man but apparently the bytches for sure can’t keep one.

    • SWEET D!CK

      REAL TALK

  • Buddy Luv

    too many people marry for the wrong reasons.

    …no one wins when the marriage is based on bu11sh!t.

    trust me…successful marriages are based on love and compatibility. marrying for any other reason will do more harm than good…and that goes for all people…black, white, etc.

    • scatter

      @bk4real damn! you can’t throw all sisters under the bus because of a few bad expweriences. Your character comes into question if you can only attract scandalous chicks. Look in the mirror b!tch ni@@A.

  • geemoenettie

    Since when has having a man been winning. Cats are beating on cheating on and destroying women. HOOOORAYYY for the married chick calling in to Dr. Phil cause her hubby spends more time on the golf course than with her. Congratulations to the married gal whose husband spends more money on the secretary than her. The grand prize winner is the ladies whose husbands kill them and their babies. For the record, I got married at 20. I guess I beat the stereotype. But I won’t make that mistake again.

  • LOL

    The point there missing is WE DONT WANT BLACK MEN the beckys can keep them😀

    • sadness

      @nation i don’t know what part of the world or century you are living in but if you think other races do not appriciate women period of all races then you need to come out from under that rock. i live in north dfw and thats all i see is interacial couples with beautiful bi racial children. AND YES to your surprise these families include black women. Keep believing in the myths and stereotypes dummy

  • Bloodshot Third Eye

    People are still using that Charlies sheen winning thing like it’s still funny and topical?

    • I'd DIE for a White Woman

      Shyte i know i am!!!!

  • CHITAMAMI

    bossip stays with da exclusive! NICKI MINAJ SEX TAPE LEAKED!! WWW.LOOT6.COM

  • (_Jasmine_)

    Women, men, date whom ever you want… Black men do date more out of their race from what I see in my community, but I don’t care, because we as women shouldn’t sell our selves short and only check for black men for the most part many aren’t checking for us..There are so many white men who want to be with black women. I’ve yet to why so many white men will go insane for a black woman,yet a black men just disown us black women…smh…

    In the end…. Although it saddens me,with all this swirling and mixing,there won’t be just a black race anyhow…

  • I'd DIE for a White Woman

    So i read these responses and all i see is Black woman making excuses. Just own up to your faults and realize its not every man out there its YOU!!!!!! CHANGE U! Man let me get off this page and go find my Snow Goddess..smh

    • scatter

      If you’d die for one any you haven’t found her yet you ain’t gonna find her. Oh yeah you are a fuking herb.

  • Jay

    Marriage is not what it use to be but lets be honest:

    White women are winning because they are smarter at the game, more forgiving and expect to get married. They also have more suitors of men chasing them and are very approachable women. Look at the top picture, the white woman is inviting while the black one is a little hostile. This dynamic is very real to many men, some feel that black women are a bit cold.

    Also, some black women say that white women take the black men that black women don’t want. But, that in itself is one of the most endearing qualities of white women. They are more forgiving of looks then many of your common single black women.

    There is no black woman not getting hit on anywhere in the world its just they are all chasing the same type of pimp nigro. White women on the other hand know they have an expiration date and look to get married and expect it. Black women are willing to be baby momma’s to the neighborhood pimp, rather then the corporate man.

    There are those black women so picky that they are alone because they never really put in the effort to try something different. Many black women are just to combative, don’t cook and feel it is demeaning to cater to a husband or a man.

    • Allie

      @Dee: Hey amen to that!

  • Jay

    Marriage is not what it use to be but lets be honest:

    White women are winning because they are smarter at the game, more forgiving and expect to get married. They also have more suitors of men chasing them and are very approachable women. Look at the top picture, the white woman is inviting while the black one is a little hostile. This dynamic is very real to many men, some feel that black women are a bit cold.

    Also, some black women say that white women take the black men that black women don’t want. But, that in itself is one of the most endearing qualities of white women. They are more forgiving of looks then many of your common single black women.

    There is no black woman not getting hit on anywhere in the world its just they are all chasing the same type of pimp nigro. White women on the other hand know they have an expiration date and look to get married and expect it. Black women are willing to be baby momma’s to the neighborhood pimp, rather then the corporate man.

    There are those black women so picky that they are alone because they never really put in the effort to try something different. Many black women are just to combative, don’t cook and feel it is demeaning to cater to a husband or a man.

  • to the contrary

    Well this site is at it again making stupid statements to make black women angry in my eyes I don’t suffer because of black men dating white women I just don’t date black men to stay away from the drama you can date who you want its whatever im not upset I honestly have meet any bitter sistah this site live on this ish the want us to be angry frothing at the mouth over black men like we need them so badly i think latin men are the hottest men but i don’t give a damn the world is becoming a smaller place date who you want get off it already………here come the angry black men

  • TriniSazon

    @Marquis de Sade
    im convinced you work for b.o.s.s.i.p

    why dont black women have a press conference about this urgent issue ?! can someone please tell me when the world started to evolve around black men only because i didnt get the memo .

  • did it on em

    the having children out of wedlock is high among black women too. BRING ON THE SNOWBUNNIES

1 2 3 6
blog comments powered by Disqus