Your Man Completes You? That’s Sad…

- By Bossip Staff

“He completes me,” is a phrase used synonymously with falling in love.

Oftentimes, we use it to fill voids—thinking it’s the thing to satisfy a sense of emptiness. Unfortunately, time and time again, it leads to disappointment and heartache. When you seek fulfillment from others, you are vulnerable to the pitfalls of human behavior. We cannot depend on other people for validation and happiness.

What you get from your man should complement not complete your life. He may be the light of your world, but he is not who you are. Before you can be the right woman for anyone else, you have to be the right woman for you. Relationships come and go, but the person you see in the mirror is never going anywhere. That woman has to be complete alone before she can be the complement to someone else.

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  • KGDC

    Often times “complete” is synonymous with “compatible”. While there ARE many women who are shells that feel they need to be filled, many times it’s just semantics.

    Seriously ladies, let’s not be drama queens about EVERYTHING that has to deal with relationships with men. Sometimes it’s the OVERanalyzation that kills relationships. Focus more on the nuances of the relationship, not the over-hyped, self-help mentality that drives women to think that if they WANT a man that they are somehow not WOMEN enough.

    For real. It’s annoying.

  • Tron

    Thats why its good to stand on ur own two feet and be single!

  • G.M.

    we do complete women when it comes to sex…its like our d1cks are the missing piece to the puzzle that is a womans vagina, thats why the vagina is a hole and y’all are only happy when u find the piece that fills it lol XD

  • 1king

    A deck of cards missing an ace is still a deck of cards but not a complete deck. Yeah if you really wanna play you can still get the job done but to have a real game you need that ace. Men are made for women and vice versus. A plug in a socket creates electricity.

  • robbie

    he got to know you can make it w/o him. – G.M., there is a lot out here for that.

  • YEAISAID IT

    GOD COMPLETES ME

    PEOPLE WILL LET YOU DOWN ALL THE TYME

    ESPECIALLY MEN!!

    DAMNED IF U DO N DAMNED IF U DON’T

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  • Daniel

    A woman can complete a man and a man can complete a woman, often times one or both partners fear having someone so emotionally attached to them that they get scared and run. It still takes the three fold cord (Man/Woman/God) But given the fact that I am not afraid to tell a woman she completes me, I look for that same emotional fearlessness in my mate.

  • Juliemango

    A man cant complete me but he sure can satisfy me!!!

  • I Aint Mad at Ya

    @clarissa
    I feel you but , problem is young ladies will push 5 caring, studious, motivated guys out the way to get to the one with the swag, tatts, sagging pants and spinning rims

    • Sysy

      I totally understand you, but I must say that the women who do that are not WOMEN but young GIRLS, no matter how old they are. Those are the same people who didn’t have proper influences in their lives growing up- probably didn’t have fathers in their homes to teach them what a real Man is like.

  • Loli

    Although there could be other points that could be argued ……LOVE is what completes us all for the most part and us heteos….LOVE of a man is what we are looking for and if that is the case then…yes a man does complete us or you can substiture LOVE for MAN and then it would be LOVE COMPLETES US ALL no matter what.

  • REAL REAL TALK

    LEAVE THE B?ITCH ITS SIMPLE???

    REAL REAL TALK

  • ceewalk

    Ummmm…everything is not meant to be analyzed really..smh..lololol…so if one feels this way they are not independent in their lives..get out of here..seriously

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