Top 10 Things Men and Women Do that Destroy Relationships

- By Bossip Staff Categories: For Discussion, For the Fellas, For the Ladies

Everyone is always talking about what people lack in relationships and why they don’t last, but what about the things people do consistently that destroy relationships. We found a list that gives 10 reasons that men and women will walk away and it does NOT include cheating.

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Top 5 Things Men Do that Destroy Relationships:

1. Not Answering the Phone:

When a man doesn’t answer the phone, especially at certain times of the day, it causes suspicion in a woman’s mind.

2. Walk Your Talk:

If a man says he is going to do something, then he needs to make sure that he does it. Don’t give empty promises.

3. Learn to say “I Don’t Know”:

When it comes to a man’s ego, they can’t stand to say “I DON’T KNOW!!!” Women can’t stand when a man thinks he knows EVERYTHING!!! It’s okay to “google it” if you don’t know.

4. Hogging the Remote:

When a man just takes complete control over the TV, it’s a simple sign that a man is not interested in the things that his woman likes. Watching sports is cool but not 24\7.

5. Bringing Up Weight:

A woman doesn’t need her man to constantly remind her that she needs to hit the gym. A woman realizes that she has gained a few pounds when the 1st pound hits. Also by a man always bringing up a woman’s weight, it makes it seem that all he cares about is the way she looks and not what she has to offer.

Top 5 Things Women Do to Destroy Relationships:

1. The “WHERE ARE YOU” question:

When a woman calls a man and the first thing she ask him is “WHERE ARE YOU???” That is annoying. If the woman is asking for a specific reason then that’s understandable but to ask a man who all the time shows that a woman doesn’t trust her man when he’s not with her.

2. The “Who You Talking To” question:

When a man is on the phone and this question is asked, men find this to be very rude. Asking this question co-insides with the above question, it shows that a woman doesn’t trust her man and makes a woman appear to be nosy.

3. Nagging:

When a woman starts nagging about nothing. If a man hasn’t done what you want him to do and you nag him about it, it’s really not going to get done once a woman starts nagging.

4. Holding a Grudge:

When a woman holds a grudge and then tries to bring up all the old stuff in a new argument, that drives a man crazy and makes him non-responsive.

5. Allowing a Man Time to Breathe:

Men need time by themselves, to be with friends and family. Men need to feel independent. When a woman doesn’t give a man time to himself then he feels suffocated.

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Comments

  • Man, I just don't care™

    WOMEN TALK TO FUGGIN MUCH!

  • DR.FUNK

    Trying to have a baby against my wishes.That’s a real deal-breaker for me.
    ::::::
    Not too fond of you leaving stuff at my place either.

  • Jr Versus

    yup

  • thebusiness

    Both of those lists could go for either sex.

  • Glok... Count down to Armegeddon!

    F.UK THAT LIST!
    IF THAT BYTCH CANT COOK,…. IM GONE, HEY ITS TRUE,.. A WAY TO MY HEART IZ THROUGH MY MUH F.UKKING STOMACH ,…REAL TALK!

  • MistaO

    For women, #1 HAS to be listening to their girlfriends, sisters, or even their momma when it comes to their man.

    I’ve seen more relationships bombed out because the woman listened to the recommendations of a female in her life concerning their man.

    Women need to remember misery loves company and very few women who don’t have, can’t get, or can’t keep a man want to see you with one. So they go about the business of planting poison seeds in the womans mind and over time it usually workss….

  • pynk♥{sugar}

    thebusiness
    1/4/10, 11:34:am

    Both of those lists could go for either sex.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    true.

  • Glok... Count down to Armegeddon!

    I CAN DEAL WITH ALL THAT CHIT ON THAT PUNK AZZ LIST …CUZ IM GLOK MUH F.UKKERZ!
    LOOK COOK ME MY CHIT WOMAN,… WE GOOD !

  • I'm just me

    Yes, I nag…..when you don’t do something you said you were going to do, lol.

    Walk the talk!!

  • pynk♥{sugar}

    MistaO
    1/4/10, 11:41:am

    For women, #1 HAS to be listening to their girlfriends, sisters, or even their momma when it comes to their man.

    I’ve seen more relationships bombed out because the woman listened to the recommendations of a female in her life concerning their man.

    Women need to remember misery loves company and very few women who don’t have, can’t get, or can’t keep a man want to see you with one. So they go about the business of planting poison seeds in the womans mind and over time it usually workss….
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    This is true. I know it 1st-hand. It happened to me & my EX. HOWEVER, he listened to what his mother had to say, over me. & this is why we would clash 95% of the time. When a dude brings his mother up in the convo too much, I run for cover.

  • KeepNit2Real

    Jill Scott got some big ol t i t t a y z!!!!

  • Dr. Hayden Drake

    I think the list is pretty on point.

  • Dr. Hayden Drake

    I think the list is pretty much on point.

  • I'm just me

    @ LYRICS

    Gee….

    I can’t imagine a man complainin about a gem such as yourself…. you seem lovely…

    *side eye*

  • KeepNit2Real

    pynk♥{sugar}

    1/4/10, 11:45:am

    MistaO
    1/4/10, 11:41:am

    For women, #1 HAS to be listening to their girlfriends, sisters, or even their momma when it comes to their man.

    I’ve seen more relationships bombed out because the woman listened to the recommendations of a female in her life concerning their man.

    Women need to remember misery loves company and very few women who don’t have, can’t get, or can’t keep a man want to see you with one. So they go about the business of planting poison seeds in the womans mind and over time it usually workss….
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    This is true. I know it 1st-hand. It happened to me & my EX. HOWEVER, he listened to what his mother had to say, over me. & this is why we would clash 95% of the time. When a dude brings his mother up in the convo too much, I run for cover.
    _______________________________

    Mama boy’s…

    I saw my good friend’s man leave her for his mom’s words. Dude even shacked up in her basement until things settle down between him and his wifey.

    Glad I ain’t no damn mama’s boy…

  • Glok... Count down to Armegeddon!

    SEE YOU NAG US …WE GONNA IGNORE YOUR AZZ AND FALL ASLEEP SO YOUR MISERY LOVE COMPANY AZZ CAN STAY FUMING !

  • WhatAWorld

    Oooh,that remote thing pisses me off to no end,leaving the seat up when you know there’s a woman in the house.What if a woman left tampons out in the open.You definitely wouldn’t like that.Going through my stuff.But both of these list can go both ways because men can talk alot as well!

  • Glok... Count down to Armegeddon!

    LYRICS!
    DAMM ,WHO CANT APPCRECIATE LYRICS AZZ …GO LYRICS, THAT FOOL DONT KNOW …ID BE A HAPPY MAN EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE, YOU FEEDING ME AND FU.KKING ME,… YOU GET THE CREDIT CARDS AND SHOP, SHOP TIL YOUR LIL HEART IZ CONTENT!

  • KeepNit2Real

    I will agree on the time alone thing.

    I was dating this girl once who I saw for 90% of my week. I had NO time for my musical pursuits with this girl.

    I didn’t touch my guitar or keyboard for almost 3 months. When I tried telling her I needed some me time and she had a fit, I broke up with her right then and there.

    There was nothing to even talk about when she wouldn’t let me do something that was a part of my life for way longer than I knew her.

    So I agree with that….just let me get my music time in and I’m happy. I’m good after that.

  • Matix b

    It’s really not that serious! I have stuck with a guy for much worse and left a guy for much less! It all depends on the bond you have with that person and how much time you have invested in the relationship. Some guys/girls are just worth the BS and some aren’t! Simple as that!

  • Halim

    Interesting, but too many typos. Co-insides? Nosy? What happened to “coincide” and “nosey”??? Come on ppl, step it up.

  • Glok... Count down to Armegeddon!

    I NEVER BYTCH ABOUT NO WEIGHT EITHER, SISTAZ IF YOU PUT ON SOME POUNDS F.UK IT…IT JUST MAKES YOUR T.W.A.T. THAT MUCH TIGHTER!,..GLOK WILL FUK IT RIGHT OFF YOUR AZZ!

  • olsweetdickwillie (WHO GONNA CHECK ME BOO?)

    Ok list, dont knw about remote… you only got 1 tv, there is a problem

  • S. Goodwin

    AIDS is a deal breaker for me. I’m old school like that. No AIDS please. And stop talking so much. I mean jesus, you don’t have AIDS, can’t you just be quiet? I could understand if you did have AIDS, because then you would want to talk about it, but since I wouldn’t be around anyway if you did have AIDS, you would have to talk to someone else. You should figure out who that would be and go talk to them now. The game is on. The nerve of some people.

  • pynk♥{sugar}

    KeepNit2Real
    1/4/10, 11:52:am

    I will agree on the time alone thing.

    I was dating this girl once who I saw for 90% of my week. I had NO time for my musical pursuits with this girl.

    I didn’t touch my guitar or keyboard for almost 3 months. When I tried telling her I needed some me time and she had a fit, I broke up with her right then and there.

    There was nothing to even talk about when she wouldn’t let me do something that was a part of my life for way longer than I knew her.

    So I agree with that….just let me get my music time in and I’m happy. I’m good after that.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Lol, my ex was a music man too. As long as you don’t neglect the woman for music, you’re in the cool.

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