Hello Bossip Staff I read your love and sex articles all the time and I thought I’d reach out to you guys because nothing seems off limits. Let me start off with a little bit of history. I am 27 years old and my husband will be 30 in May. We got married 3 years ago and we have a healthy marriage. Here is where things get a little complicated. We grew up in strict religious households and we were both virgins when we got married. I was lucky because he’s my high school sweetheart and we dated all through college but we never made love until our wedding night. I was very proud of us as a couple because we held out until marriage(as hard as it was) we built a strong foundation as a result of our commitment to God and our beliefs. Mind you when I was in high school and college all my friends were sexually active and many were promiscuous. I never judged them but I did ask questions and I did a lot of research before the wedding just to prepared for what I thought sex was about at the time. I love my husband and I know he loves me too but I think I intimidate him in the bedroom because I want to try new positions or something like that. He was shy in the beginning and eventually he opened up and surprised me! He can be freaky and I like that! We have great sex but I want to “toss his salad.” I know it sounds gross but I read that oral and digital stimulation around the anus and perineum are highly orgasmic for man and he won’t let me do it to him! How can I convince him to try it with me just one time?
Dear Bossip: He Won’t Let Me Toss His Salad!
Posted on March 30th, 2011 - By Bossip Staff