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First in the new year!

09 Baby!

More like a couple BOSSIP loved to hate..

and happy new years everyone!

Watch all the jealous sistahs start posting their hate.

Happy New year

A New Year (and Texas is still gettin shit)

Mr. First

THE MF MAN

Im out yall later

Happy new year KJJ.

can yo post some real celebirties dam

They seem to be happy, their always together and when I see her without him she’s usually by herself so I wish them the best

Happy New Year Everyone!!!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL WITH A BLESSED & PROSPEROUS ONE AT THAT! If he do marry her he better get a prenup. Yea she got her own stacks but I know she could use more.

NEXT!!!

let them do what they do I always say.

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I am so over these African American athletes truly thinking that these chics would have any interest in them whatsoever if they didn’t have money. Get a clue!! Not even hating on Kim, because I think that she is beautiful, however…..would she love him without???

attention seekers….wtf… famous for sex tape

@ Kels Kim was married before and I don’t think he was a big name celebrity.
I like Kim and Reggie because I like Kim I think she is beautiful and she doesn’t seem too fake.
Reggie doesn’t look as muscular as before though.
These comments are coming from a black female. I am all for interracial dating I don’t think people she limit themselves to just one particular race. Most athletes date other races anyway. I’m not looking for an athlete..

Kim Kardashian has obviously lost weight and she doesn’t wear those tight ass clothes anymore, that’s what is different about her. I know when I lost weight my face changed too.

Reggie and Kim look happy. Bossip, please find another couple to stalk in 2009. You guys have played yourself with the constant coverage of Reggie and Kim in 2008. Just leave them alone.

MWKY
“I am all for interracial dating I don’t think people should limit themselves to just one particular race. ”

100% CO-SIGN.

Kim does look a little different in the face, not sure what it is though.

Fair enough MWNY. I am definitely a firm believer that you date who you love….however, I don’t know if you keep up with the kardashian show. On one episode, they said that Reggie had gotten hurt, and Khloe asked Kim, “Does he still get paid?” That was the craziest thing ever to me. I see lots of the philanthropic ventures that this family does and think that they are a great unit. But MWNY, their relationship is just one of those things that make me say hummmmmm…….

CC I agree. bossip needs to find some fresh meat to stalk for ’09.

Khloe and Rashad look cute together!

im getting tired of these ladys taking all of the good nice looking brothers,is that all they can get?Me being a man i am it hurts me to see them (Reggie,Rashad) not with there own kind.There is nothing wrong with a black woman a beautiful on at that.

@ Kenneth.

Your right there is nothing wrong with black women..but at the same time why limit yourself to just black women? Should it matter if its black/white/latin/asian etc? As long as you find common ground and match each other it should be all good.

why dating within your OWN race equals ” limiting” yourself! Within our own race, we have plenty of colors, shapes, body types, facial structure,hair type, african, african american, west indians,european african etc…
Why don’t you explore your own race before getting tired of it! White men don’t think that they limit themseves when they date their women!!
ITS 2009, ITS TIME TO LOVE YOURSELF!

this being said, you can date whoever you want but if you think you limit yourself by dating your own people then you are just a self hater! SORRY!

I don’t have a problem with him dating out his race..but come on..sloppy seconds or even thirds from Ray J..she’s looking for tranny with each passing day..come on reggie you can do better than that!

I mean looking more tranny..gawd she’s manly!

ITS 09 CAN THEY LIVE???

@ Christie’s Secrets.

Yes within our race we there are many possiblities..but it’s just ONE race..and why would you be a self hater because you choose to explore all races?

LIKE I SAID BEFORE..i honestly think that MOST people are over these two..who cares? let them live… now watch Kigali’s or whatever the hell his/her name is come up in here and start some sh!t..smh it’s 2009, please stop this sh!t.

don’t fall for it! they’re trying to get you all to fight..prove how smart you are and ignore it! GOOD FOR KIM AND REGGIE..

yeah, i believe that black women need to start exploring their options. it just sucks because men of other races aren’t pursuing us like black men are chasing women of other races.

@big_juicy

I feel you!

As for the subject of this post, R and K seem to always be together and love to have the camera in they face. Is Reggie still injured? He gets more press for his antics off the field than on the field!!

LIKE I SAID BEFORE..i honestly think that MOST people are over these two..who cares? let them live… now watch Kigali or whatever the hell his/her name is come up in here and start some sh!t..smh it’s 2009, please stop this sh!t.

don’t fall for it! they’re trying to get you all to fight..prove how smart you are and ignore it! GOOD FOR KIM AND REGGIE..

And is ANY female checking for reggie anymore? (of any race?) NO..

Nobody except KIM because she’s got him so who cares?

AND FOR THE LAST TIME, this is NOT about bm or bw, it’s about two people who are in love, stop making this something that it’s not..BOSSIP posts this sh!t and then sits back and laughs all damn day..please be bigger than this.

oh and i think kim looks cute, I don’t like the dress but she looks cute- and yes, i’m black.

again, its not exploring the other races that makes you a self hater! Its considering that your own race is not good enough that makes you a self hater! Like I said in the past, I’ve dated lot of white men, arabian men,latino but I’ ve never heard them saying BS about their women! Only black men that I know told me, oh black woman are this, blakc women are that! If you think that you can to date outside your race just to escape from the so called shortcomings of black woman, you’re stupid!

@ Christie’s Secrets.

Point taken. Thanks for clearing that up..but i think alot of that (or at least from what I’ve seen locally) is that black men are tired of listening to black women complain about black men dating outside their race. They see it as a huge turn off when instead of talking about themselves they talk about other (namely white) women.

Again I duno how it is where you are..but this is what I see in Dallas.

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Well the Futbol field is calling…im off to practice. Good day 2 all..and HAPPY NEW YEAR!

OK no work today…time to sit back and watch stupid ass MTV and watch these bitches getting married…I wouldn’t ever behave this poorly

Chrisite’s Secret,

Obviously you are a person who is really in tune with yourself and has put this in perspective. I am amazed and also sadden that so many of our people still buy into the whiteman/whitewoman as our savior. Not only have many of us bought into a white Jesus, but still believe that getting a non black mate is the answer to our prayers. How many of these people notice the divorce rate for all races and how many more single whitewomen there are than single whitemen, they are looking also. In addition, surveys have been taken asking whitemen who are the most feminine women. The results are:
1. Asian
2. White
3. Hispanic
4. Black

Now extrapolating this one can only deduce that many whitemen may seek sex for the fantasy of it from blackwomen, but many are not looking for a spouse.

I have a Blackwoman and i love sisters, the survey did not ask blackmen. My advice to sisters, including my daughters, is to love yourselves, there is no magic pill that can make you better or make men desire or want you. Your personality and attitude is the only true elixir. 94% of blackmen who are married are married to blackwomen that is a fact. We see on this blog and others that an overreaction is made when people see a celebrity or entertainer to a non-black person. I notice that Bossip usually will put a blackman with a non-blackwoman because there are more women on this site than blackmen and usually the woman are more apt to get upset and opinionated. If one will do their history, blackwomen were involved in interracial relationship way before blackmen and the consequences weren’t as dire if a blackman did it and there are quite a number of celebrity blackwomen with non-blackmen. Personally, that’s their business, i got a woman so more power to them.

They look goodish…

well, i live in Europe and here interracial relationship are common change! I think black european, at least french are really brainwashed by the so called standards of beauty and just cant find their women attractive anymore and want a blond hair girl with big boobs! you know the typical cliche of the “beautiful white woman”! this is why l’oreal is probably selling more dying products than shower gel lol
But like i said, I don’t know, i still think it is important for people to keep their races alive and this used to be instinctive! Now, i feel like we have to teach black men (or even black woman in Europe) to love their own! In Africa, people marry their own race maybe because they are not as many as white people like here! But still, white men who live in Afrcia don’t end up hating their own women like black men do when they are in a predominantely white country ! some love some black woman but the majority of them are still marrying their woman! its instincitive!

thats a damn shame….I thought better of Rashad….

It’s 2009 and yea I’m a single sista too yea I would love a brotha, but GUESS WHAT why should we confine ourselves to JUST THEM? They all aren’t laying out the red carpet for us.
Kim & Khloe love the brotha’s and they picked cute brotha’s now if they picked someone like hummm Jazzy Pha would you really care?
OPEN YOUR HEARTS AND MINDS black women there are plenty of NON-BLACK men that will treat you like a queen!

@ manster!

I agree with you!
I don’t have problem with interracial dating since im involved in this too! but i love my black man and even my non black boyfriends know that i don’t think they are better than a blak man! Only him can understand me better, my accent, my culture, my cooking, my way of having sex, my way of loving him! But if a white men an make me feel special like that, who knows! but i have nothng but love for my brothas! especially african men!

I JUST CANT UNDERSTAND WHY THIS DUM ASS NIGGA IS WITHTHIS HOE HE KNOWS THAT HAS A VIDEO TAPE OUT WITH GAY J AND ALL THE OTHER NIGGAS SHES BEEN WITH HOEIN AROUND WITH BEFORE HE CAME I SEE ANOTHER OJAY STOREY GOING DOWN IN THE FUTURE

on another note, im hap for chloe! she needed a man so bad! rashad is looking real sweet!
I think reggie loves kim! im not sure kim is really in love with him though! Maybe because she just cant seem to want to keep her relationship private! when other people are fighting with paparazzi for their privacy, she just put everything out there at any chance she get?!

@Kels nope I stopped watching that show after the first season. Khloe better get out Reggie’s pockets. I always wondered that same question if they still get paid. The chick from ATL tripped me out when she told the other chick that NFL money is not guaranteed, although I don’t think it is about money with them. I don’t see Kim or anyone who is from money to just date anyone without money. Not a female anyway.
@CS I understand wanting to get to know your own but I can’t even get a brother to walk with his head up when I walk by, you know how you are walking in a grocery store on campus people see you but they look the other way, look down, that is a pet peeve of mine. I always notice older black men and older white men always say hi.
My thoughts on black men are skewed because of past dealings with them, my lying father, and seeing the way my brother treats his girlfriends.
That’s mainly why I am open for other options whether it be white, or hispanic. Just like when I went natural I received more compliments from hispanic and white people than black.

Kim looks really pretty, but I agree she’s taking the plastic surgery a little too far, I don’t think the changes in her face are only due to weight loss. I hope she stops now because she’s starting to morph into some weird version of Kobe’s wife.

MARCUS, YOU RETARTED.IT AINT THE WHITE WOMEN GOING AFTER THE BROTHAS IT’S THE BROTHAS GOING AFTER THE WHITE WOMEN. SHE GOT HER OWN MONEY,SHE DON’T NEED HIS. WHITE WOMEN ARE MORE RESPECTFUL,LESS DRAMA,AND SMELL BETTER.AND YOU KNOW THEY GOT NICER HAIR AND SKIN.YOU BLAME THESE ATHLETES. THEY CAN HAVE WHOEVER THEY WANT AND THEY WANT THE WHITE GIRLS. I DON’T BLAME THEM

Hey Prince is coming out with three albums this year…who’s still the man!!!

@big_juicy: I just read your post. I truly believe there is someone for everyone in this world, and maybe you just haven’t met the right guy yet. Despite what bossip wants you to believe, the majority of black men,including black athletes choose to date and marry black women. The media just focuses on interracial couples because they know it gets everyone all stirred up and heated.

Most self respecting men do not date women like Kim Kardashian.

The right person is out there for you, just leave it in God’s hands and focus on your own self growth. Usually you find the right person when you stop looking, that’s what happened with me. Happy New Year!!!!

I’m watching Beauty Shop on E and they are straight repping Georgia and Chicago…I feel at home…rep it Queen

Cristie’s

Bingo! Culture! Culture! Culture! I have teenage daughters and we have discussion on a myriad of topics and this was one of the things i stressed to them, Culture. I knew a sister who was married for a short period of time to a whiteman, he constanly asked her things about her hair and why she had to this and do that. She was crazy about him and attempted keep her hair smooth and silky by over perming it, well it soon fell out and she started wearing wigs, he eventually moved on and she went thru a deep depression, don’t know what happened to her.

There are just some things that are indigenious to blacks that other races will not understand. It is just my belief as a blackman that the blackwoman was put on this earth to be my mate. I read a lot and maybe this is one of the problem, too few of us understand our history, many believe that it began with Slavery. They don’t understand who were the true Hebrew Israelites or civilization such as Cush, Nimrod, Ashanti, etc. Many blacks have been so brainwashed that they want to run from anything that is black. If you ask 100 black people in this country i am willing to bet that 80% will tell you that they have some Indian ancestry, which is a fallacy. I have little faith that it’s going to get better, reading this blog and others it really is sad to see people believe that by seeking out people who share their own ancestry and values is somehow limiting yourself! Maybe the fact the can’t find a suitable mate is own them! but hey to each their own. Happiness is found within. Peace!

lashondra

MARCUS, YOU RETARTED.IT AINT THE WHITE WOMEN GOING AFTER THE BROTHAS IT’S THE BROTHAS GOING AFTER THE WHITE WOMEN. SHE GOT HER OWN MONEY,SHE DON’T NEED HIS. WHITE WOMEN ARE MORE RESPECTFUL,LESS DRAMA,AND SMELL BETTER.AND YOU KNOW THEY GOT NICER HAIR AND SKIN.YOU BLAME THESE ATHLETES. THEY CAN HAVE WHOEVER THEY WANT AND THEY WANT THE WHITE GIRLS. I DON’T BLAME THEM
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If U bathe, brush your teeth and do your hair daily then U too can be “as” good as a white woman yourself. Yall are tripping if a man likes U he likes U no-matter what your race, creed or religion…That’s every ignorant person’s free lesson for the New Year.

SHE BETTER LOOKING THAN OBAMAS SKANK

lashondra said:

“WHITE WOMEN ARE MORE RESPECTFUL,LESS DRAMA,AND SMELL BETTER.AND YOU KNOW THEY GOT NICER HAIR AND SKIN.”

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What!?!? Really LASHONDRA!?!?!

I’m all for interacial dating, I’m white-only like blacks and trust have a family member that is more powerful but not a fameho like these two. Kourtney is OK. Kim is full of plastic surgery, damn her old nose! This is her 2nd nose job. Khloe looks like Chyna. Neither would look at the guys if they had no money, no. Kim’s ex had money well when he was with her he did. I hate Kim, Brody and their mother and Khloe. I bet this guy is with Khloe how humiliating for him to get some fame. Who’s heard of him before and she is just soo Chyna doll. Reggie’s alleged BF is Chris Paul you don’t see him touching Chyna!

Oh hell no!! I see you just posting to start some shyt.

@Kels,

“I am so over these African American athletes truly thinking that these chics would have any interest in them whatsoever if they didn’t have money. Get a clue!! Not even hating on Kim, because I think that she is beautiful, however…..would she love him without???’

And you probably wouldnt care to comment on them if they didnt have money. Couldnt you just about say that about so many other couples? Yes, their money affords them the oppurtunity to hook up with good looking women. This is older than civilization itself. Besides this chick was with Ray J and he didnt have paper like Reggie.

@Big juicy,

Maybe you arent as attractive as you think. Besides what is wrong with a blue collar man? You talking about you want a Christian man. Wasnt Christ broke himself? Why not focus on a man’s character? You are supposed to share your wealth with him anyway. Find a man thats attractive, decent, hard working and honest. Giving to your family is like giving to charity, it will never reduce your wealth. Greedy ass.

I am a black sista but I dont like to date/marry my own kind cause of drama. Everytime I date a brother, I find myself in problems, they lie a lot, cheat many times, baby mamas I mean wtf so now I only date ……… (fill in the blank yourself, but I dont go for brothers anymore)

btw, i forgot to wish HAPPY NEW YEAR to everybody!!!

hi kigali!

Please be sweet to us black females just today lol

Who cares is right .. I dont give a fuc! about her she is knifed up anyway, fake butt, fake lips , fake nose, fake hair, a big implanted liar and anyway i was accused of being a woman because i dont like her which is a damn lie .. not all men like fake women and im one of them so to hell with her and her comrades!

@Christies Secret,

“White men don’t think that they limit themseves when they date their women!!”

They dont because they have more freedom to date outside of their race than black men are. There arent a legion of white women chasing them down with pitch forks and torchers. There are far more white men with non white women than black men with non black women but you dont here too many white women complaining about that.

You missed that episode of Wife Swap where the white guy had his Japanese wife and he told his “new” white wife that the reason why he went to Japan to find a wife was because they hadnt been infected with that American woman mentality.

@Christie’s Secret

Where in Europe do you live? I live there too but I am American. I told this black girls in the US they have it really good. Try finding a black man in the UK.

Hey you punk bitches. I am coming down off a 20 hour binge and you scrubs better not mess with me. shrugging shoulders

Yeah and now the big news is Larry Fitzgerald of the CXardinals haveing baby mama drama with his gold digging white baby mama>semms he offered her a house when he found she may be preg but she turned it down that ish knew what she was doing. This black ball players need to use their damn head plus he is 25 and this gold digger is 38, what the hell? why she aint have no baby before almost 40, i see she was waiting on her black meal ticket, but you cant tell this idiot black men nothing and they call black women gold diggers…. so sad! No way in the world would a white anything get my money i would rather give it to a black woman for all the stuggles they went thru like my mother raising me alone… fuc! that damn skank azz white women .. and i am one of the few black men with some damn sense!

@Angee,

What are Reggies antics off the field? Dating? He aint shot himself yet. He hasnt gotten into a fight at the club. They didnt find him hiding in the trunk of his car. Reggie is a stable guy. I am not sure how he is doing on the field but I dont see him doing any crazy shit off. Let him be. He isnt embarassing black folks. Mike Vick, Plaxico? Why not ride on them crazy niggahs.

the only people who hate this black and a-rab couple is you bossip

@Kigali
Where are U from??? why do U…talk like that???

oshie.. get the fuc! outta here, this aint no damn sex chat room today.. damn go get some sex from your man and stop making this blog into a sex line.. damn can we have one day without your sex talk!

and im coming down off a 24 hour drunk so dont fuc! with me either… im in a fuc&ing bi-polar mood today!!

IM GASED UP BITCHES

Hey you punk bitches. I am coming down off a 20 hour binge and you scrubs better not mess with me. shrugging shoulders
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Ain’t nobody trying to mess with Oshie…
Ay yo this dude Djimon Hounsou isn’t all that bad looking bodywise

@ Kigali,

I live in FRANCE.
About the white men issue, its not really true! I think even though america is still a racist country, it is not politically correct for a white person to talk about race openly! however, i had some white friends (girls) and i remember the day i dated this guy that was so cute and that lots of girls wanted to go out with! let me tell you that i saw a real change in the way they were talking to me! trust! someone even asked me if i didn’t like black men! i told them that i do but its not like they were a lot of black men in my school anyways. white women don’t like to see their men with asian women or black women! they still think that thy are better looking and that black women attributes are gross yet, they tried to get it?!

How did i know Kigali’s hating ass would up in here still stuck on the same old shit?

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Easy Kigali,

the only reason I said that is I have not heard a lot about his football playing, but we see a lot about him and Kim. I guess he could not play any this season due to his injury.

@Christie’s Secret,

Hey girl. I am going try to go to France soon. I am across the channel in the UK. I see so many black men with white women in the UK it shocked me. But I dont like the way most black women in the UK look. All those Jaimacan girls look terrible. The young African girls look the best. Classy but a little stuck up.

Are the Arabs in France good looking? I knew this hot boy from Gaudalupe who lived in France. That boy could party. He said the club scence in France was better than the UK. I just want to go to a good raggae club in Paris and then I will be happy.

Whats it like in Paris?

@Angee

Has anyone ever told you you look like Mary J? I had to do a double take girl.

Ok, Oshie I don’t know if you are kidding or not, but THAT IS Mary J!! Lol!

@Angee

Oh sorry I have been up partying all night and things are not what they appear for me write now girl.

@ kigali,

i don’t live in paris now bu i lived there for 2 years! paris is a beautifl city! the arhitecture is really typical and you have a lot of museums etc.. its really a culture oriented city!
you can find bunch of nationalities over there whic is cool. it kinda close to ny for that matter. Arabian guys can be very yummy! the darkest one from tunisia or even Morooco can be confused for light skin brothas, some of them have kinky air too! i know this beauticul arabian guy that try to get with me but he is too short lol!
You also have people from french island , they are mixed with indian, white, asian so you can find goreous specimen for real! they dont really get along with us african, i guess its because they look down on us black african but they are really self centered like most people from islands and most of the time just date among their own people!

I understand Oshie!

sorry for the typos, my computer is buggin like crazy!

@BIG JUICY:

Macroeconomic picture aside…I know TONS of white men with bad credit,poor grooming habits,and low ambition.It appears to have ZERO effect on their ability to be with ANY woman of ANY race.I might add that the avg.UPS driver pulls down 70-100k a year with overtime.Before I started my other business ventures- I was a “handyman” & figured out a way to make 100-125k consistently.WHAT YOU WANT is some visual/statistical FANTASY.You want some handsome unencumbered fellow with a large income…free time to shop travel & play…who has witty & charming things to say at parties.MOEST MEN OF ALL COLORS ARE NOT THAT.Good luck.

*MOST*

@Dr. Funk

The average UPS does not make that much even with OT bitch liar. My brother works there and during holidays he works 14-16 hour days at about $22hr. That does not equal no 70-100k do your math over

they look good together… whats up mock… happy new year mami

@Christie’s Secret,

Thats cool honey. I was in Morocco like two years ago and the guys there were so fine. They looked like Puerto Ricans to me. In fact, I saw more good looking men the first couple hours I was in Morocco than I saw in a whole year in London. Trust me.

I need to check for Paris really. Its just sometimes when you are in Europe you just say to yourself that you will go this summer or next year or some other time. Paris isnt going anywhere. Actually Paris is one of the few big cities I want to visit. For the other countries, I want to be as far away from the cities and the tourist as possible.

You know I cant stand American tourist.

I see Kim’s linebacker looking sister is following in her whorish footsteps..These white girls are sporting these dumb ball players on their arm like a new purse..These stupid ass niggas aren’t nothing but a fashion accessory to these bitches.

she looks different because she has a fringe

@manster,

In addition, surveys have been taken asking whitemen who are the most feminine women. The results are:
1. Asian
2. White
3. Hispanic
4. Black
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Interesting survey results. I would say Hispanic women, atleast from Central America were more feminine than white women but the list sounds about correct. Asian women come off to me as being super feminine and most of them arent even cute. Its just the way they carry themselves. It also has alot to do with their physique since the vast majority of them are petite by Western standards.

Reggie B puttin a hot dog in a hallway

@ stefany… some ppl just have a “type” or preference… why be mad if they prefer black men over white?

lmao @ Christie’s secret… thanks for givin a shout out to Arab men.. yea ur right… bc my brother and some cousins have been mistaken for being black…

BIG JUICY

You’re either overweight, unattractive or both. Another thing, other than this (alleged master degree) what else do you bring to the table. Some of you sistas kill me your sense of entitlement. You have to understand, the man you’re looking, on average isn’t looking for an equal to marry. A black man or any man of wealth and higher education can (in most cases) pick and choose who they want to share their life with, and in most cases, their future wife is just now entering High School. You sistas get your degrees and your six figure salary with the expectations of marrying your black “PRINCE CHARMING” not realizing that he (being black), educated & successful, makes him a precious commodity in the dating pool. Why should he adhere to your skewed sense of the ethnic/social norms. Let’s be honest, on a lot of these swirl threads, you sistas on more than one occaision has bragged about the statistics: MORE BLACK WOMEN ARE IN COLLEGE; MORE BLACK WOMEN HAVE DEGREES & SUCCESSFUL & LUCRATIVE CAREERS THAN BLACK MEN…So i reiterate – WHY SHOULD THE FEW BLACK MEN WHO ARE ON YOUR LEVEL DATE OR MARRY YOU, WHEN HE IS SUCH A PRECIOUS COMMODITY?

Easy OSHIE! I briefly worked for them for a back in the early 90′s.Unionized DRIVERS made 20 bux an hour back then.Time & a half for overtime.There was ALWAYS overtime from October to December.Senior drivers of course made more hourly than rookies.Your brother was probably a loader.They’re usually non-union.

Oshie Wants Peace in 2009

@Dr. Funk

The average UPS does not make that much even with OT bitch liar. My brother works there and during holidays he works 14-16 hour days at about $22hr. That does not equal no 70-100k do your math over

Not true! If you’re a 20 year journeyman, Dr. Funk’s figures are correct.

@ queefer

are you a man? Because what you are saying is interestig!Being educated when you a woman and having access to responsabilites and wealth by your own when women were only house wife for years is not a thing we should be proud of? So if i undertand well, it is better for a woman to invest in her looks because her education will not get her a man?!

@QUEEFER BUKAKE:

You are absolutely correct.No SUCCESSFUL man of any color is looking for an “EQUAL”.In a skewed way-neither is a successful woman looking for a man who is her “EQUAL”.In the mind of a successful woman-the man she settles down with should still out-earn her.

damn bossip. leave an a-rab alone

$20hr= roughly about 42k a year
$30hr= roughly lows 60′s

I often make $160 hr but I have to suck dick to get it. When I spread em I request $275 and hour, $350 without condom

@CHRISTIES SECRETS:

Gender aside-being well educated is it’s own reward…but it means little to the average man.

@OSHIE:

You’d make more if advertised on City Vibe intead of Craigslist. ;^D

Christie’s secrets

@ queefer

are you a man? Because what you are saying is interestig!Being educated when you a woman and having access to responsabilites and wealth by your own when women were only house wife for years is not a thing we should be proud of? So if i undertand well, it is better for a woman to invest in her looks because her education will not get her a man?!

In most cases, not the man she’s looking for. I work in the corporate world and I can say 100% of the time, the White female executives, who are married, their husbands are richer, but old as grit, and the black female executives single. It’s a sad reality, but a reality none the same.

*instead*
damn typos.

*are single*

Reggie is a bust as a top draft pick.Good thing he negotiated the fat bonus.

queefer

so black women should lower their standards just because its hard to find a nice black man wealthy, willing to date them! white women are lucky cause white men love them somee ducated woman which they met most of the time at school! now with the rate of black men in college compared to black women, there is a deficit! so what you say is that we should go with the handyman( no offense, just trying to make a point)who probably earn less than us!

Reggie Bush would’ve excelled on a team with a better offensive line.

@Queefer Bukake,

Very true. Female enrollment in uiversity has been higher for a long time now. Still, the hard sciences are dominated by men. There still remains male dominated fields where you dont need a university education but still bring in good money.

These women need to understand that men are going to be men and it doesnt matter how educated they are or how much money they have. Men want the youngest fittest woman out. If you are a 30 something black woman looking for a professional 30 something black man, you are competting with the young tendas out there. Men dont give a shit about how educated or how many degrees a woman has, really. He wants her to be fit, good looking, as young as possible and pleasant.

Its sad to see these black females use racial guilt to try to get these black men back into the fold.

The only thing black women can do now is to start rearing better black men so when their daughters grow, there will be enough eligible good black men out there for them. If they dont, their daughters will be saying the same thing they are when they hit their late 20 and 30s.

Christie’s secrets

These white men, in most cases, are 10, 15 to 20 years older. They married these women while they were in their mid twenties and just getting started with their climb up the corporate ladder. Black women’s reality in most cases are different than their white counter parts.

All i’m saying is that being driven and ambitious has its costs. Should the educated black woman settle for less? NO! Should the educated blackman marry his equal to adhere to some ethnic/social norm? NO! It is, what it is.

@Christie Secret,

“…white women are lucky cause white men love them somee ducated woman which they met most of the time at school!”

That isnt the case. There are just more educated white men to choose from which widens the pool for white women. Think about it. If there are 20 professional black men, and 35 professional black women, that creates a serious crunch for black women. Ten of those black men might go for non black women, 5 of them might go for younger women and that leaves 5 for those 35 black women to fight over.

Whereas for white women there might be 100 professional white men and 80 professional white women. Some of them might go for non white women, some might go for younger women but that still leaves enough for the professional white women to choose from.

Black women NEED to start raising better sons to increase the odds that their daughters will have enough black men to choose from.

@ kigali, as educated as you sound, i cant believe you don’t think there is something wrong with that statement! Me being the pretty woma some think i am, i don’t feel comfortable when im being used for my Puss*! IDK about you but its sad! Women will always be sexual object no matter what! SAD!I know some woman don’t have any problem with that though!

@ kigali, you also need to know that there is way more black women that black men! it is what it is! I need to look out for the figures but i heard sometin about 1 man for 4 to 5 women! this is a lost cause! I will become lesbian! I can still use men for sex or even toys but seems thats its the only thing i can get from them!

Christie’s secrets

@ kigali, as educated as you sound, i cant believe you don’t think there is something wrong with that statement! Me being the pretty woma some think i am, i don’t feel comfortable when im being used for my Puss*! IDK about you but its sad! Women will always be sexual object no matter what! SAD!I know some woman don’t have any problem with that though!

And there lies your problem. In the drive to propagate the species, you can’t intellectualize sex. Your attitude is nothing more than a carryover from the woman libs movement of the 70′s. Most of you sistas have been carrying this imaginary (self-inflicted) boulder on your shoulders that make you overly combative and has (in most cases) hindered your femininity. There’s nothing wrong with being sexual and being objectified by your mate at home. If you bring that out of date post 70′s women lib dogma into a relationship with the opposite sex, trust me, you’re looking at many a lonely nights cuddled up with a cat, dog or a batter operated boyfriend.

@ queefer

These white men, in most cases, are 10, 15 to 20 years older. They married these women while they were in their mid twenties and just getting started with their climb up the corporate ladder. Black women’s reality in most cases are different than their white counter parts.

All i’m saying is that being driven and ambitious has its costs. Should the educated black woman settle for less? NO! Should the educated blackman marry his equal to adhere to some ethnic/social norm? NO! It is, what it is.
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why not, i mean, it is THE norm for those white women to marry their older counter parts as you stated! Why couldn’t it be the norm for US?!! Why could not we have some norm too!

@Christie’s Secret,

Become a Mormon wife. Sharing a man isnt that bad as long as he is honest and clean. Its a part time job that pays full time and more holidays off.

*battery*

*why not, i mean, it is THE norm for those white women to marry their older counter parts as you stated! Why couldn’t it be the norm for US?!! Why could not we have some norm too!*

You’re missing the point. That’s their norm (white people), not ours.

I’m actually pointing the fact that we have none?! and this is why our community has so many issues! we need norms, structures, traditions like other cultures! and prefering your own is the norm everywhere except for black people! Weird!

Christie’s secrets

Actually, that’s not true! Inter-racial dating makes up less than 5% of the overall dating/mating pool. At the end of the day, over 98% of black men still date within their race. What you’re talking about is the financial, social & status class structure within the professional black sector of society. Like i said – Certain drives and ambitions has its’ costs.

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I don’t care about Reggie or Kim. Reggie doesn’t pay my bills, uplift me or anything else for that matter. If he likes it, I love so whatever. He’ll see. I hope he is not marrying her for her looks because if you look at her mother, this woman will be doomed by the time she reaches 35, as opposed to women of color who don’t reach their beauty pinnacle unto at least 50. like wine they get better with time (most). They mean nothing to mean, happy for them to have found love, I just wish the world didn’t have access to what he sees or gets on a regular basis…such is life.

@ Oshie

Please get a life! You are on this blog site more than anyone single person…really! You must really be lonely or needy. You need to put people in your real life that you can feel comfortable spending time with, because you are logging in more time than the actual employees f Bossip…not healthy.

Anonymous

…And here you are on Bossip also? Tea Kettle, callin’ the Skillet black much?

Anonymous

@ Oshie

Please get a life! You are on this blog site more than anyone single person…really! You must really be lonely or needy. You need to put people in your real life that you can feel comfortable spending time with, because you are logging in more time than the actual employees f Bossip…not healthy.
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Half the time it’s not really me. I just come on here while I’m at work. Yes I’m at work right now. And I am working. It takes an IQ of over 120 to multi-task like that but somehow I manage. Oh, and Bossip pays me. LOL

waddup osh

Fuc! you oshie with the ugly blonde meth head looking picture.. and anonymous is spelled like i just spelled it not like anonymoys.. damn get a education and stay off Bossip so much we are sick of your sex talk.I heard thru the grape vine that a lot of the men left because of your filthy talk! it aint that serious skank!

anonymous… you are right and this is from the other anonymous, oshie was on here every 5mins the other day.. waht kind of job? and it was the picture with the beer bottle in the boobs… how skanky can you get… this 2009 we dont want that skank all up in here! imposter or not both yall get the hell on somewhere!

i dont know who was on here more oshie or that horsieq black/blondie person!

HOT DAMN!! I wish some of you broads could purchase a CLUE!!! If I have to read one more “WHY THE GOTTA BE TAKIN ALL DA GOOD BLACK MEN” sob story routine Im gonna throw the hell up! What in the hell qualifies them as “good” men? Because theyre wealthy (for now)? Beacuse theyre “attractive”?. Maybe I s/b happy my Mom put me on game long ago when it came to atheletes and entertainers since I was young. But I dont envy any woman, of any color, whos attatched to the typical, vapid, egotistical, shallow, slutbucket, boring, athelete/entertainer! These men have been put on a pedestal by men and woman alike. For years girls, and women, ahve been fawning over them, begging for a chance of just sniffing the dick. WHat do you think this does to thier ego? Not that I think that all of them are inheritly bad people, or different than anyother man. But the biggest differance between them and a “regular” guy is OPTIONS!! If given the chance Im sure most men would behave the same way. Thier whole lives their atheletic ability has been haralded as the most significant part of thier being, what type of personality, and character do you think this develops? Not only do you have to deal with thier gigantic egos, the press, the lifestyle, the long absences, the sacrifice, the onlookers, the football “communities”, the overbearing families, the gold digger assupmtions, the pre-nups. And last but not least the groupies, theyre aggressive, efficeint, brash, persistant, adn hungry. Thier appearance is thier occupation, and theres always a new shipment of new young meat, ready to take your place, or get a peice of your “man”, they know how easy it is to trip these fools up its thier livelyhood.

I made the mistake of dating outside the box in High School, and talking to some “superstar” jock.He like most of them were used to being admired and fawned on by everybody solely for having a nice jumpshot, and handels. He then acted as if I shouldve been thankful for the oppourtunity to be seen with him. For days I had to be subjected to boring conversations regarding his basketball season, and his “beauty regimen”, and anything regarding him. But after he got tired of waiting and ordered me to take care of his “Anaconda”, and showed me that he had blessed me with a coveted “TOP THREE” position for his girls. I informed him that Ive had more stimulating conversations exchanging baby babble with an infant, and his punk ass needed to work on his defensive skills. Needless to say he was none to pleased. I was then written off his list, and told that I was replaceable. And he was right these men are used to being pursued, and never experience anyone challenging them in anyother place besides the bedroom.There were plenty of enthusiastic applicants, who would be more than happy to do as he pleased. But you still wanna ask “WHY NOT ME?” you better be glad that you are not exposed to these empty headed, STD vessels, cuz you aint missin SHIT!

@Misty Knight: Standing ovation, thank you for trying to talk some sense into people who are so bitter about black athletes being with non black woman.

I’ve been around athletes because I had a girlfriend who used to date them and they are the biggest waste of time I’ve ever seen. The majority of them have multiple chicks even though they swear they don’t and unless they have a sick contract like a LeBron or Shaq their money usually doesnt last because they’re taking care of so many damn people.

My friend got her heart broken when she found out this NFL dude she was in love with had a fiancee back home and was only using her as side piece. She genuinely cared about him and had no clue he was with another girl. If you’re a nice woman avoid athletes at all costs.

anonymous says the one who keeps it moving

Fuc! you oshie with the ugly blonde meth head looking picture.. and anonymous is spelled like i just spelled it not like anonymoys.. damn get a education and stay off Bossip so much we are sick of your sex talk.I heard thru the grape vine that a lot of the men left because of your filthy talk! it aint that serious skank!
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Um, what?
First of all I didn’t say anything about the “spelling of anonymous”. I copied and pasted what you wrote about me being on here all the time, and simply stated that I’m only on here while I’m at work.
And I seriously doubt that you have access to any kind of “grapevine” as you are so delusional to think that men would leave because of any kind of “sex talk”.
I’ve concluded that you are either retarded, foreign, under the age of 12 or all of the above. Good day.

Hey Fallin!

I’m out.

I am convinced Kigali is a man. No woman white, black, blue or purple would ever say the shit she does.

Khloe came up she looks great killing in a hot dress trimmed up her ends. Kim who usaully dresses well I am not feeling that tacky meremiad NYe dress.

Lance Gross and Eva Marcilles has dated a year and he has popped the question this Christmas Eve before his family. Reggie may date and bang her, but he did not put the ring on yet. I believe his father is against him popping the question. Didi you see the pictures. Since he’s been with her, his fottball performance fell off the map.

Is it me or the Kardashians are trying to flaunt around black men to rip at black women? LOL!!!!!!

manster you on 100 % are right!!!

YOU BLACK WOMEN LOWER YOUR VOICES AND CLEAN UP A LITTLE AND YOU MIGHT GET A GOOD MAN. DON’T HATE ON KIM SHE FINER THAN ALL YOU FAKE HAIR BT**ES

OBAMAS OL LADY IS TORE THE HELL UP,GET REAL. BLACK MEN HIT AND RUN ON YOU BITCHES LEFT AND RIGHT YOU MIGHT WANT TO ASK YOURSELF WHY,LOSER

BORING !!! BLAH BLAH … I understand black women wanting to be with a good and successful black man … but calling Kim K out of her name is not going to do it for you ! Putting that ish out into the world is bad spirit !! Just do you , perfect your spirit , and do good things for your fam and friends and mostly GOD and JESUS and then it all will fall into place …. Maybe your Reggie Bush appears in your life !

Man that felt good putting that out there … hold dat !

Larry, he has the highest seat with her on his shoulder. She was making more dough than he was as a public servant AND she kept her clothes on doing it. Where is the Reggie with Kim on his back. Getting fat and losing his career. Larry, you get a reality check about yourself and ahow you view men. Your ass probably ain’t black either. No they hit and run on Kimmy Kardashiam and all the whit ehoes you lavish yourselves over. BE GONE COCKSUCKER

I JUST PROVED WHY SO MANY OF YOU ARE UNWED BITCES. YOU HAVE TO ADMIT WHITE WOMEN ARE PRETTIER INGENERAL AND SMELL LOTS BETTER. AND I AM BLACK OILY FAKE HAIR SKANK

@MISTY KNIGHT:

Preach child. Had to chuckle. ;^D

@Diamond,

I am a woman but I am not a feminist and I dont belong to the cult of black female supremacy.

Get over it new year speak of something new. Misty Knight, you’re right i just hope a lot of folks young or whatever take it on board and not give a ish, but i guess it all depends on their environments. LArry please shut up you know nothing. Kigali get a life and actually live it. Peace to all out of here with all the ancient nonsense.

What the hell is black women supremacy?

Christie’s secrets wrote:

“why dating within your OWN race equals ” limiting” yourself! Within our own race, we have plenty of colors, shapes, body types, facial structure,hair type, african, african american, west indians,european african etc…
Why don’t you explore your own race before getting tired of it! White men don’t think that they limit themseves when they date their women!!
ITS 2009, ITS TIME TO LOVE YOURSELF!”
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AMEN!!!!

In the law of averages..

The average white man will seek a WHITE WOMAN first when it comes to romanance

The average Hispanic man seeks a HISPANIC woman first when it comes to romance

The average Asian man will seek an ASIAN woman when it comes to romance

The average Black man will seek 1st the Latina, 2nd Caucasian woman 3rd an Asian woman then after he has tasted the smorgasbord he will take on
a BLACK woman.

See in the game of romance…the black man is the only man without any hesitation when it comes to other races of women as dating/marrying possibilities.

In the general order of things a black woman romantically involved with a white man usually exists when that white man has spent a great deal of time with that black woman….usually a professional relationship which blossomed into a personal friendship that flourished into a romance.

That white man has to be open to the consideration of a black woman as a romantic candidate {as children white boys don’t usually grow up thinking about black girls} Usually by the time he has gotten to know the black woman’s true personality romance is around the corner.

MANHATTAN,IF WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT BLACK MEN TAKING ON A BLACK WOMEN AFTER HE’S TRIED ALL THE REST, THEN WHY ARE SO MANY BLACK WOMEN SINGLE.they go for you last when they find out no other race wants them

Larry your mis informed i guess you arent blk, dont live around many, only biased knowledge may be off tv or some random sites, or yr trying to speak of usa which on a general scale with my own eye yr still mis informed.

@ Manhattan wrote:
In the general order of things a black woman romantically involved with a white man usually exists when that white man has spent a great deal of time with that black woman…
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I have stopped traffic a time or two and have been approached by white men, and hispanic men, an Arabic business man, which was not in the working enviromnment. There are white men that are attracted to black women and they will approach you like a black man would if they find you attractive.

From my teen years-to my mid/late twenties-I did mostly white girls.Not because I found them more attractive or desirable.I just found it more PRACTICAL.In my working/middle class upbringing-sistas’ were getting pregnant left & right.It’s as if 60 years of modern birth control and sex education had NEVER reached the ears of some of these broads.When you’re young & horny-the last thing you wanna deal with is some dummy insisting that she’s allergic to all forms of birth control & morally/religiously against having an abortion.Strange…where was your God when you were deciding to get naked? One thing you KNEW about white girls when I was a kid was that THEY WANTED YOU…and they knew about birth control…and if there was an accident they’d fix it.That was one of the few unintended upside elements of racism.The strategy worked perfectly.Got no unwanted kids running around.Got no angry female trying to settle scores using children as weapons.Thanx white girls for being my cum dumpster.

Related to the post:
That is one huge knee brace Reggie is wearing.Looks like the ones they hand out to O-Line.Not good.

@AIDA:

Funny you should bring that up.I was briefly in the adult film industry.They don’t let you work unless you pass a full panel of STD tests.Mine ALWAYS came back cleaner than Tibetan Monks’. ;^D
Nice try.

You are filthy and unclean. Your a disgusting male prostitute and your dirty.

Furthermore if you had any sense, The woman can go home to an unfaithful husband who just cheated with a hiv positve person. The next day it can be transmitted to you. You would have to test that person everday to make sure that they did not have HIV and they don’t do that.

I heard of some people in the film idustry that caught HIV so don’t think your nasty promiscuous ways won’t catch up to you. All it takes is just one slip up.

That comment was for DR FUNKY

@AIDA:

I would NOT wish that something like that happen
to you-but the reality is that the scenario you
describe could just as easily affect YOUR world
too.I’m indifferent to your passing judgment on
my wild younger years.I might add that I’m
way tamer these days.I’ve got nothing to prove.
Continued health & prosperity to us both. Check this link:

http://www.aim-med.org/

I don’t wish it on anyone it is just a reality. The reality is that if you are not celibate, or in a monogamous relationship where there is no cheating, you are not safe.

I might add AIDA-that if you don’t live in a city with a thriving porn industry-you can get tested at any PLANNED PARENTHOOD. Not scared are you? ;^D

AIDA…Not trynna’ scare you here…but EVERYONE cheats.Just ask the “happily married” broads who I used to keep company with.

I don’t need to get tested. I’m single and celibate. I have seen some people close to me that Received their death sentence through HIV. It is hard but I know at the end of the day, that is something I don’t have nagging me in the back of my mind.

Dr Funk

Everyone does not cheat. I just laughed at that comment. Don’t make generalizing statments about relationships. Some people do have morals. That is why the world is in such a terrible state of affairs. Immorality is at an all time high. Everyone is not promiscuous and aldulterous. You probably live your life like that and reflect those view on others. Some people do have values and do not think with their lower extremities.

@AIDA:

True.Anyway…I hope you fix that celibacy thing.
I hear it’s painful. ;^D Off to the gym.

@ DR funk
At least we have that in common I’m about to do my work out in the basement.

I will fix it when I’m married to a faithful loving man.

Dr. Funk.

Yo! Can you divulge which starlets you had scenes with? I’m a huge fan of Jazzmine Cashmere, Mya Lovely, Brown Suga, Kapri Stylesz and a few other.

She’s a beautiful girl and they look good together. These two been together for years and people are still sweatin them? Get a hobby!

NEWS FLASH!! THESE “OTHER”(NON-BLACK) CHICKS DATE BROTHAS EVEN IF WE R BROKE .SO SISTAS SHOULD FIND A MAN THATS DOIN HIS THING, TRYING TO GET PAID AND COME UP WITH HIM. MOST SISTAS GO OUT LOOKING FOR GUYS WHO ALREADY CAME UP.(NOT GONNA HAPPEN)…”OTHER CHICKS” WILL RIDE WITH BROTHAS NO MATTER WHAT……SISTAS SHOULD DO THA SAME

@ KigaLI……..
This is ARTOWAR, and this is the first time I have personally addressed you.
Because I stand alone, except for my associates here in MIAMI, that would rather see their own mothers,
and children, be tortured in front of their eyes than to speak out against me. I stand alone.

However I have read many of your posts.
Unlike the most of the BOSSIP readers, you actually seem to have been out of the neighborhood,
and even may have been across the ponds, east, and west.

Some of the things you post infuriate women, especially black women.
However, my job if you want to call it that. Seems to confer to a certain degrees, with your statements.
And your description of females black, white,Arabic, and Asiatic.
Is very close to the truth, or dead on the head of the nail.
I am not endorsing you, or co-signing everything you say.
However, I WILL PUT MY NECK out on the line for for one reason.
Anyone black female, or white female, or Asian female or the nuances in between. All want the same thing, which is long term
security.
WHILE, we men no matter how much money we have, subconsciouly know that it can all go away tomorrow, as it has for many men.

Men want what they can have know, feel, touch, smell, taste now.

WOMEN WANT forever, which no man can guarantee. Anyway!!!!
A LOT OF WOMEN HAVE never left their current locals.
I am not talking about women that have sat on a plane for
an hour. I am talking about women that have sat in a planes for more then 10 hours at a time.

These are the types of females that you, and myself are accustomed to.
Like (TUPAC SAID BEEN AROUND THE WORLD SAME SONG.)
True, and yet not true.
A so called fine woman in MEXICO, will be impressed by indoor plumbing, and be happy and content.
However, an American born, and raised female….. You present her with a 9 caret flawless diamond, and a brand new
Bentley, with a ribbon on top and she will say yes to your proposal of marriage. But complain about the color
of the Bentley.
WE have spoiled our AMRICAN women to the point wHere I actually fear for my 17 year old son, that is about to turn pro in the
next two years.
He is a fine looking boy on every level, even if here were working at Taco BELL. HE would still be pulling them chikas.
BUT the absoluteness, of him becoming a professional athlete, brings out the true inner whore in girls, and in grown ass
women.
Especially black women. the reason is because the white girls he deals with, already have their own cars, their own credit cards,
they have already been excepted to great universities.
Black girls on the other hand, see him as their one ticket out, especially when they find out who his father is.

That is one of the reasons why I laugh when hear black women talking about a successful black man marrying a white woman.
Black women say stupid things, like this white Girl…. YOU know the only reason that white chick married this brother is because
she is chasing the money…)
when in fact it is that desperate black chick trying to get up from under, that is the professional gold digger.
Been there done that.
You can ask a white girl for a dollar, and she will reach in her purse and hand you over a five.
Try that with a black female, and she will laugh at you, amd hand you nothing.

Remember the white girl probably doesn’t need the money she can always call daddy.
But what is the black girl to do? She either doesn’t know WHO daddy is, or daddy is dead or in prison.

This is not the formula for all black females, but for enough.
I have been all over the world, and have been with all nationalities of women.

what seems to be consistent, is that black women will marry for security.
while a non black women will marry for the man.
And I know this is going to piss off a lot of black females. DON’T CARE,,, for balk women are not my only resources.
And the real truth always hurts.
And for the black brothers out there conduct a test as to my theory. The next time you need a couple
C-NOTES call you black female and ask her for it.
Than call you white female and ask her for the same amount
And sit back and wait to see which one will show up first.
My bet is on the white girl coming through. Know ask your selves brothers,
who are the true gold digging hoes?

Again I can speak on this matter, because I have had everything from
black, to white to Asian, to Jewish, to Arabic to PhilippinA, to ARBIC witch for a black man pulling an Arbic chick is almost
impossible.
However keep schooling them (Kigali) and keep in mind that most of the people you are trying to educate, have never been out
of their own neighborhoods .
I am out my brother, or sister, we just pulled up into the Port of Miami,
and I can’t wait to sleep in my house bed, tonight……. . ARTOFWAR

@ QUEEFER BUKAKE:

Afraid not.These days I’m trynna’ call myself a legitimate business man.I don’t really care if people already know…but the last thing I need when I wanna close a deal is to have somebody-overtly or covertly-go AIDA on me.The girls you mention were’nt in the business when I was.(’99-’00) Too bad…because the sistas’ in the game these days are across the board hotter than those before them.I got in quite by accident.I was dating this smokin’ hot Asian babe.(you probably know her)She decided she wanted in & drafted me to do her first scene.She just wanted someone she was comfortable with.The director (A WOMAN) was reluctant because they would prefer to use someone they know can “get wood” with people watching.All men think they can be porn stars…but the reason you keep seeing the same guys bangin’ all the hot chix is because rookies get on the set & go limp when they see there’s anywhere from 2-10 people in the room watching you.A woman is ready for the scene when she takes off her clothes.Anyway…I managed to “perfom”.Getting it up was no problem.Delivering the pearls was.;-> They get annoyed when you don’t pop within a reasonable time frame.I did a handful of scenes after that-but if you’re thinking about getting in the biz-FORGET IT.Unless you bring a hot chik into the biz or START YOUR OWN PRODUCTION COMPANY-no one who’s already in the game cares to let you in.This is reflected in the pay scale too.She will make anywhere from 2 to 5 times more money than you…and you’re the one doing most of the work.

@ ARTOFWAR: Your comment was one of the few that I read in its entirety. So I feel compelled to respond to some of your statements. Let me start by wishing you-and all Bossipers a Happy and Prosperous ’09. Let me also address the parts of your statement that struck me: Your assumption that many bossipers are limited in their thinking as a result of not getting out of the hood and not being well-traveled or well-rounded is ridiculous. I find it sad when one of our own compartmentalizes all of us. If you’ve ‘gotten off the block’ who are you to say that we haven’t either? I’m a successful woman who grew up in Philly. I’m educated and attractive with no kids, because I know I deserve to be more than just “So and So’s Baby-Momma’. I’ve traveled extensively as a child with my family, then for leisure as an adult, and lately I’ve traveled across the country and abroad for my job. The decision to stay local, finally, was mine because I’m actually burned out from traveling so much. So when I offer an opinion I speak from my experiences: and many black men who are successful, date outside of their race simply because they can. Asian, Latino, White women-whatever race, are not ‘better’ than black women. But they genuinely WANT and LUST for black men. So, if that means stretching the limits sexually, giving y’all money, signing away their lives and credit scores to give y’all whatever y’all want, they will do it. We-black women on the other hand, are very guarded as a result of watching our family & friends struggle-often at the expense of loving or helping one-black-man-too-many. Your comment about asking a black woman for a $1, her refusal to give it to you while a white woman will probably give you $5 is off the mark. Because the real question is: why is a GROWN MAN asking a woman for money? In ANY situation? For ANY reason? Don’t genarlize. Don’t say what we will and won’t do because in my past, I have helped and supported ex-boyfriends and male relatives, financially and otherwise. I, nor any woman I know, is a gold-digger nor do we have several kids or several baby-daddies. We simply want to be LOVED and many black men don’t offer that. They always want sex, or someone to give them what THEY want when THEY want it. They rarely reciprocate and I’ve seen this many times in many places. It’s unfortunate the you, one of our own, paint/taint all black women with the same negative brush. There was a time that I would give a man $1 if he asked for it–and I still may if he NEEDS it: but if he’s full of sh– and asking **just to see** if I’ll give it to him, my wallet stays closed. Why? Because I can’t open my legs for a man who needs me to open my wallet too. I have no respect for him and am allowing him to f— me in more ways than one if I put up with that nonsense. Every grown person should have the means and the drive to sustain themselves financially. If they can’t, their mate will step in to help out of love and concern–but noone should feel forced or tricked into giving of themselves, or their $ as some sort of ‘test’ or as part of the dating game, which is all it is alot of times. Everywhere I’ve ever been, from the states to France, the men LOVE black women. Whereas black men make it a POINT, more than men of any other race, to screw around with any and every OTHER type of woman they can find. It’s sad and hurtful that our own beautiful black men find us so unworthy of their love and respect, and don’t allow us to bask in their successes with them. I, and every black chick I know, would love to be with a black man who has it together in ALL aspects of a relationship: so we can grow together and so he can lift us up along-side of him. Black men are truly one of God’s greatest creations: physically sexy, mentally appealing, strong and caring-men of other races are intimidated by your superior prowess. Give us-BLACK WOMEN-the chance to love you too!! We’re not looking for a free ride and please don’t forget, these women of other races-that some of you are so fond of, always have a plan in mind, They might *seem* to be more sensitive and loving than black women, because they aren’t as vocal or as brash as we are: but beileve me, they know that if their sex is good and if they *appear* to always have your best interests at heart, they’ll make out good in the end. Its all about the a$$ and the $ Baby. Regardless of where you’re from/who you’ve had or where you’ve been, the only color that truly counts is GREEN!

WorldlyGoodsmeanNuthin
BRAVO! This speech was so eloquent and so on point! I actually love this :

“Whereas black men make it a POINT, more than men of any other race, to screw around with any and every OTHER type of woman they can find”

Its funny cause ARTOFWAR was bragging that it is hard for a black man to pull up an arabic chic? First, what is so specal about them lol, secondly, I guess he has never been to France because black men with arabic chick is not surprising here! for someone who got out of the block, its funny he doesn’t know that! Plus his argument about white chick is still untrue! the same white chick was not intesterested in him when he was working at the local fast food! but some black girls were already attracted to him! the fact that some girls are now interested in him because he is a baller to be may be accurate but also includes those white girls! wether they already have their car or credit cards, they still know that the guy will get millions! and they want a piece of that! if you raised your son correctly, he might know how to find the right chick for him!~ Hopefully, you are not entertaining self hating views at home!

Get it right bossip its the couple that bossip loves to hate. I dont have a problem with them its all the jealous black ladies that have a problem with Kim & Reggie.. lol

Kim is a very pretty girl, reggie is a fine peice of chocolate.. put the 2 together and you have a sexy beautiful caramel swirl.. I ain’t hating this year on no one..

Why is people picking on Oshie? Her comments are pretty funny. Also, Celebrities date celebrities because they understand each others drama. It’s not often that you see a celebrity with a hoodrat or someone who hasn’t been exposed to the finer things in life. You give a hoodrap cavier and they say I aint eatin no fish eggs. You tell them to put the cavier on their palate and smash it with your tongue, to savor the taste. (bitch look at you like your crazy)

oSHIE.. I DONT GIVE A DAMN WHAT YOU CONCLUDED. i have already concluded that you are a racist retard but anything to get you out of here so good im glad you think that just be gone bytch!

shes a goofball and a retard thats why!!!

Happy New Year!

Ladies quit hating Kim…If she dumped Reggie he is not coming looking for your blog writing asses.

Canada to Win WJC (yet again) check my cousin PK #5

@ Misty Knight, you are right on point with your comments. I have a cousin who played pro hoops for about 10 years. He is exactly what you described, but what gets me is that not only do women kiss his ass but dudes do too. Meanwhile I tell him and his posse to go suck a dick, and it pisses him off to no end that I don’t go for his bullshit. But he gives me my respect, because I don’t ask him for shit, never have and never will.

1ST – I think Kim K is beautiful (a little slutty with her past) but, yet very beautiful. I also think she definitely knifed her nose up some more (why I don’t know b/c she’s very beautiful without all that)

2ND – I am a black woman and I agree with SOME of the things that Kigali and ArtofWar have said that generalize society…however, I don’t feel that it is wise to be so negative in an environment where we should be more uplifting and inspiring. The reason why the statistics and stereotypes are what they are is because of people like Kigali and Artofwar continuously adding fuel to the fire. If we come together and collectively decide to squash all the generalzation, it will slowly die out instead of festering.

3RD – @WorldlyGoodsmeanNuthin I couldn’t agree with you more as I come from the same type of upbringing. I am 27 years old with a Master’s degree, no children, good paying job and I date a wonderful black man. He is not a 6 figure salaried man, but he works hard and makes an honest living but 1st and foremost treats me like a queen. And, in the end, that’s all that matters.

4TH – everyone have a happy new year!

WHITE MAN DONE BROKE THE BLACK MAN SO MUCH HE HAS NO PRIDE IN HIMSELF OR HIS HERITAGE.

BLACK MAN HATES HE IS A BLACK MAN SO HOW IS HE GONNA LOVE THE BLACK WOMAN…..

WHITE MEN GOT THE POWER AND MONEY, HE RAPED OUR WOMEN BUT YOU DO NOT SEE BLACK WOMEN MAKING IT A FAD TO RUN AFTER WHITE MEN…… WE ARE AS TRUE AND LOYAL TO OUR FAMILIES AS WE WERE BACK THEN.

STOP SUPPORTING THESE BLACK STARS WHO HAVE SELF HATE. THEY NEED A LIGHT TO WHITE VARIETY TO FEEL WORTHY…….BUT COLLECT GREEN FROM BLACK FOLKS..

DON’T GIVE YOUR SON REGGIE BUSH ITEMS AND DON’T BUY JOHN LEGEND CD IF THAT IS THE CASE!!!!!

KIM K ONLY SURVIVES ON HERE B/C THE WHITE MAN HAS USED ASSES AND TITS TO CONTROL THE BLACK MAN EVER MORE. IT USED TO BE A HONOR FOR OUR BLACK WOMEN BUT KNOW THE HONOR IS BESTOWED UPON ANYONE BUTT PADS AND ALL. WHITE SITES DO NOT RECOGNIZE KIM AS A STAR ONLY BLACK MEN…. WHOOP DEE DOOO

LETS ALL MAKE A BLOGG PACK TO STOP POSTING ABOUT KIM K.. SHE IS NOT BLACK NOR IS SHE A STAR SO WHY ARE WE SWEATING A HO.. EVE IF WE HAVE TOO LET REGGIE GO SO BE IT LETS US RID OURSLEVES OF THE TRASH FOR 2009.

AND YES SHE IS A HO SHE HAS HAD MORE GUYS IN THE INDUSTRY THEN LITTLE KIM.. THE ONLY PERSON OUT THAT CAN GIVE HER A RUN FOR HER MONEY IS SUPA HEAD..

YES REGGIE IS WIFEYING THE ARABIAN SUPA HEAD!!!!!!!

KIM K IS NOT BLACK SO WHY IS SHE A TOPIC ON BLACK WEBSITES?

ELEVATE YOUR MIND
DON’T POST ABOUT KIM K IN 2009

QUIT HATIN YOU OILY SKINNED WIREY HEADED HOES. WHAT YOU EXPECT REGGIE TO DO ,HOOK UP WITH SOME OVER WEIGHT NAPPY HEADED UNEDUCATED HOODRAT. KIM BE FINE AS HELL,QUIT HATIN BITCHES

What on earth is she wearing? That is ugly really ugly. On top of that she is way too short for that long dress. What white trash.

@ C from STL
That’s exactly what I’m saying

cute couple and they are lasting, that’s all that matter’s

?? doesnt this chick own a couture shop in LA?? why doesnt she shop there? what is that mess she got on?

Who cares what race these two are!!!!!!
Let them be in love and happy!
Time to move on!

[...] and Rashard McCants are putting their vanilla and chocolate swirl dish on display just like Reggie and Kim: As I’m sure most of you have seen, it’s being reported all over the place that I have a [...]

[...] and Rashad McCants are putting their vanilla and chocolate swirl dish on display just like Reggie and Kim: As I’m sure most of you have seen, it’s being reported all over the place that I have a [...]

@all black women

…here are the secrets that you’ve always wanted to know about a successful black man and his desires….1. he does not have to settle….which means that black women have to evolve and make themselves more desirable….

…..2. Being thick is ok, but there is a LIMIT and you must start to adhere to a healthy lifestyle….which means that it would behoove you to join a fitness club and eat healthy, because successful black men truly care about their appearance…..Fitness centers are truly one of the best places to meet us….we are just waiting to show you how to do a properly “bent over row” that’s actually an exercise and not a sex move!!…..

….3. work on cutting out the unnecessary drama in the relationship….no matter how successful you are in your education or career, all men want to be catered to, and a successful black man expects it and does not have to settle….if you don’t have an extensive education, be working on it!!…..

….4. a successful black man is not always the cat in the corner of the hottest club making it rain…..that guy is either slanging for a short period of time until he gets locked up, or gets killed, while putting your future at risk in the process, if you’re rolling with him (and he’s got 15 more just like you that he calls “Chicken-head!)…..that cat may also be an entertainer who will use you like yesterdays laundry (that’s probably ok with half of you though)…..

….4. take an interest in your own personal development, which means that if you are in school trying to better yourself, chances are that 99% of the black men there are on the same path….successful black men don’t just fall out of trees….it’s just that they are in places that help contribute to their success, and that’s not always in clubs making it rain…..

….5. once you find your catch, don’t smother him to death….extreme jealousy will push him away a lot faster….Also, expect that when you first hook up, that you may probably be stealing him away from someone else who might be treating him like sh*t, or who does not have any ambition regarding their future….expect the early secrets to be his transition to you, if you are truly handling your business….of course he is going to lie at first….no one with any common sense will be willing to jump head first from a frying pan into a skillet…..

….6. stop blaming other races for the inadequacies in your game….a successful black man often times just wants to be associated with something positive….

….7. a successful black man is not going to leave negative surroundings to better himself, only to go back to negative surroundings to find his mate….i said that to say this….if you are having problems finding a successful black man and are blaming women of other races from stealing all of the good black men, then chances are that you are not living a healthy lifestyle (diet, fitness club), pursuing avenues to improve your individual development (college, trade school), going to the library to find your choices of literary art….

….8. immaculate hygiene is a big issue with ALL successful men, black, white, green, blue….in France i once met a good looking white women who picked me up in a bar and she had terrible hygiene….got the f*ck out of that backseat fast!!!!

….9. all successful black men are not gay….if you give off a vibe to him that you are suspicious of his manhood within the first encounter, because maybe he has on an outfit from Banana Republic, he will suddenly remember why he prefers to date women outside of his race….

….10. open your horizons and be more open to new things, because successful black men are successful because they think outside of the box….some black women are very spontaneous and smart, but like some backward thinking black men, some black women feel as though they need to conform with society’s label and interpretation of BLACKNESS, just to be accepted by their OWN race!!!!!!! Now if that’s not f*cking irony!!!!

….lastly, this is not a condemnation of all black women, i’m just throwing a bone to the ones who need it….the ones who are constantly asking themselves WHY!!!!

[...] and Rashad McCants are putting their vanilla and chocolate swirl dish on display just like Reggie and Kim: As I’m sure most of you have seen, it’s being reported all over the place that I have a [...]

[...] and Rashad McCants are putting their vanilla and chocolate swirl dish on display just like Reggie and Kim: As I’m sure most of you have seen, it’s being reported all over the place that I have a [...]