Tamika Fuller Addresses Custody Battle With Ludacris, Shares Photos

So Precious: Tamika Fuller Shares Her Side Of The Story, Plus Photos Of Her And Luda’s Little Girl Cai

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Tamika Fuller Opens Up About Battle Over Daughter, Sets Rumors Straight

We love a strong woman, especially one who isn’t afraid to stand up to a man just because he’s wealthy, famous and powerful… We’ve been waiting for quite some time to hear Tamika Fuller’s “side” of the story when it comes to her relationship and custody battle with Ludacris over their daughter Cai. Well, Fuller has finally broken her silence, speaking out in a poignant essay on our sister site Madame Noire. We’ve excerpted some key points below:

When I found out that I was pregnant two years ago, I immediately told Chris. The world knows him as an internationally famous Hip Hop artist and actor (Ludacris) but, despite the hurtful things that have been said about me, that’s not why I was attracted to him. We had been good friends for many years, and when he told me he was newly single in spring 2013 we became intimate. Things took an ugly turn, however, when I found myself unexpectedly throwing up in his bathroom, and ultimately learning that I was pregnant.

The psychological manipulation began immediately. He broke down into tears when I told him that I wanted to keep our baby and he begged me to abort the child whose heartbeat was developing in rhythm with my own. He told me that it would destroy his career and his image. I contemplated heavily on terminating my pregnancy. I don’t believe in enforced parenthood or trapping anyone into raising an unwanted child. However when I visited the clinic and heard my daughter’s heartbeat on the ultrasound I knew I couldn’t go through with it.

He promised me the world – trips on his private jet and other perks of the rich and famous -if I would just have the abortion. Perhaps, more importantly, he made me feel as if I was ruining us. It was as if he believed that our friendship should take precedence over the life growing inside of me and when he realized that it didn’t, it couldn’t, my real nightmare began.

I am fully aware that people often assume an average woman who gets herself impregnated by a celebrity is a gold-digger looking for a quick and easy payday. However contrary to popular belief, I was fully cognizant that I was going to be a single mother and I knew that he was not going to be involved in that process – I was okay with that. I went through my entire pregnancy alone and working full time with no support from him, most of the people in my circle never even knew he was the father until our trial made headlines. Deep down even though I knew he never wanted the baby, I have to be honest in admitting I was hurt that there was a real possibility my daughter’s father might not be part of her life. I thought that he would accept our daughter’s impending arrival and want to take part in the process, but I know now that thinking was naive.

What do you think you would have done put in her position? Do you feel more empathy for Tamika hearing her tell her side?

Hit the flip for more of her essay.

Photo Credit: Chad Oubre

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