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Erica Mena Dishes On Her Bow Wow Break Up, Says He Was Abusive

Remember when we told you that Erica Mena put her ex Bow Wow on full blast and alleged that he was abusive??? Well the reality starlet is continuing to rant about her ex-fiance and is revealing exactly why they broke up.

According to Erica who spoke with GlobalGrind, she ended the relationship because she didn’t want to “sit there and let her child see her be mistreated by a man.”

“I’ve been quiet about it because we were engaged, but obviously he was in his feelings after my Snapchat post,” she continued.

She also revealed that Bow’s recent social media posts with his baby mama Joie Chavis were manipulative and meant to stir up drama.

“I could have gone public about our breakup a month ago,” she said. “He does this to make headlines. Just leave me alone, I moved on; why are you still in your feelings? He’s literally posting about Joie to get on my nerves and it’s not working. He’s posting it to f*** with her head and to try to get a reaction out of me. Listen, I walked away silently.

Most damning of Erica’s words however are when she alleges that Bow’s been abusive. According to the former Love & Hip Hop star, Bow “has a lot of demons” and “needs someone to talk to.”

There also may be proof of his abusive ways.
Rut roh..

 […] He helped me realize that there could be a good life and when it was good, it was great. He has a lot of demons he needs to deal with. He needs to talk to someone.”

“I’m not on reality TV anymore and this current situation just shows his immature side. People don’t need to know about this, we are not on reality TV,” she concluded.

As far as the abuse, there might be proof of physical contact, as well the verbal and mental games that are playing out online.

SMH…what’s going on here Bow Wow??? We’re beating women now???

All the while Erica Mena’s abuse allegations were circulating, Bow’s ex/baby mama Joie Chavis was defending him. As previously reported Joie says Bow NEVER hit her…


She also added in one last comment to Bow Wow fans; hit the flip to see it.

After getting blasted by Erica Mena fans for “stealing back” her baby daddy, Joie confirmed that she’s single and she and Bow are just co-parents.

So was Bow really just trying to upset Erica Mena with the IG posts???

Hit the flip for one last quote from Erica Mena on her messy breakup with Bow.

On keeping quiet about the breakup:

“I never wanted [his] business out there. I feel like people have seen me on reality TV having to fight, but at this point in my life, I deserve peace. I’m in a different place now. When it comes to Shad, this is the man I at one point really considered marrying. He is the one I decided to say yes to, but once the mask came off, I realized I had made a bad choice.”

“It’s sad, because we had a real friendship and we could have had a good life after the fact that our relationship was over. But at the end of the day, we’ve been separated for some time and I’m ready to move on,” she said.


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