*Bossip Exclusive*: Tank’s Baby MaMa says She was NOT a ONE NIGHT STAND, Tank was Soaking Up Her Panties for a While!!!

- By Bossip Staff

Alysse Stewart, Tank’s other baby mama, is not feeling how Tank is really trying to throw her under the bus on Twitter like she is some groupie. She made it clear to us what the situation was between her and Tank:

(I’d like the chance to respond)

Durrell Babbs and I have a son together. His name was changed in the last two months of my pregnancy by his father (it was always his option to name him as he saw fit). Also around that time I learned that another woman was also carrying his child. As opposed to communicating the truth, Mr. Babbs opted to remain silent. That seems to be the way he handles situations that make him uncomfortable. Or he simply chooses a lie over the truth. As he has done in our situation. He say’s our son was not a mistake, yet it sounds that way despite his clever, yet juvenile disclaimer. Let it be known that our son was not a surprise to either of us. In 2006 he asked me twice to consider having a child with him. Cleary, I eventually said yes. It was the best discussion I ever made. Durrell Babbs Jr. has brought so much joy into my life. Sometimes I wonder how I was able to exist without him in the first place.

Had it not been for the fact, that someone I called a friend betrayed my trust. No one would have known the name of my child’s father (outside of our families and close friends). Not saying it’s wrong for people to do press releases and things of that nature. And the main reason I’m sharing these words now is because, I will not be made out to be some one night stand or someone that sought to trap a man with pregnancy. I have always and will continue to be a woman of independence. If Mr. Babbs hates me as he has proclaimed (wonder if I make him sick too – LOL )? Flashback just now to when mom made me mad. Anyway, If he feels as he does we didn’t have to connect again in an intimate manner after we learned of our child’s existence. Just a thought.

I don’t hate Durrell. I just wish he were a man that kept promises. I would like for my child to have “A Real Father” – his words. One that couldn’t fall asleep on any given night, not knowing if his child were OK and his needs were being met. It is my preference that they not be strangers. He say’s he loves my son. I want him to prove it. A monetary commitment does not a father make. Angry was not the way to handle his lack of communication. However, after utilizing all normal forms of communication, I made a bad decision. Who knew this man, would go the route he did. Perhaps, some good can come out of it in the end.

To Durrell Sr., I apologize for making you feel like you had to go into attack mode. However, at the same time, I will not tolerate lies being placed on my head and around the life of my child. As I have always stated before the door is wide open for you to be the father you said you would like to be to our son. Our immature burst on the net doesn’t change that. Granted I’m very disappointed right now and probably won’t believe a word you say for a while. But that’s how trust works … you have to earn it.

I am a great mother and you should know your son is reaping the benefits of that fact. You promised he would know his family, cousins and all ‘em. Let’s start with you again. On my age and this cougar business, you never had a problem with it before. Besides, 40 is all up side your window looking in right now. So enjoy your “youth.” LOL.

For those that seek to judge me, my child’s father and act as if you have all the answers. Know that you don’t. Otherwise you wouldn’t have made mistakes, cried or experienced happiness as you have over the years. It’s called life. This is my life and have no regrets.

Damn, Tank… It sounds like you really need to get your sh*zzz together. Tank will be responding via Twitter in 5… 4… 3… 2… 1

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  • rico 9

    she sounds smart and like she has her stuff together- it’s tough raising children and even tougher when it’s only one parent.

    Tank should handle his business and not let this type of stuff end up on twitter and the blogs for all of us to comment on…man- wear a rubber if you don’t want to take of care of your kids…come on- the rubbers they have out now, it’s like it’s a second skin…

  • memchee

    this is quite immature and unnecessary on the part of both of them.

    It’s ok to move forward and look for a man who can be a better figure in her son’s life if that is what this is really about.

  • http://www.bossip.com imanik56@gmail.com

    ohh 3rd to comment!

  • WordtotheWise

    These people need to grow up and stop using Twitter as a sounding board to their person problems (Tank). Take care of your business in the privacy of your life. This is ridiculous!

    I tip my hate to Alysse Stewart for being the adult in this whole mess, and focusing on taking care of her child. Men!

  • WordtotheWise

    correction: “I tip my HAT to Alysee Stewart…”

  • http://bossip Playalisticalidocious

    I think they are both being very childish. I however love the fact that she writes (speaks) proper English.

  • blackprincess

    She is just trying to get some kind of shine b/c Tank called her out via twitter. I have heard she is crazy and just trying to make herself look good on the net. I think it’s so funny how he gave his other baby mama @zenafoster her credit if you go to his twitter page @therealtank It’s obvious she is his favorite & they are truly friends & adults in raising their daughter Zoey together. Maybe Alysse should reach out to Zena & ask her how to handle her situation better b/c she seems to be the Lauren London in this case & Alysse is just the Nivea.

  • t

    i have to disagree. she doesn’t sound ignorant, she sounds resilient but she could work on punctuation.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/064236327f23f88fa968f7d101ec70f1?s=80 Twanne

    She COOL wit me … i dont have a PROBLEM wit her NO MORE …… I said wha i said but

    When a Muhfka is RIGHT ….. THEY RIGHT!!!!!

    Why are you NeGGLET’s always goin in a how she LOOK …. I made tha mistake ….. Cuz TRUST …

    Tank or HER would F’CK NONE of you GOOFiES …

    So NOW who the REAL ugly Muhf’kaz ….. RIGHT

    Jus make a comment ON THE SUBJECT and go about your saturday ….. SH’t go spend some time wit YOUR KIDS …. stop worrying about OTHER muhf’ckaz tha you will never BE

  • kristiLuvNC

    we don’t know her… so we really don’t care about this crap….trust me “tank’s babymama”, You ARE NOT the only woman going through this…stop whining and making your business public. Noboby would have known this until you made it public…..stop crying out for attention and raise your son as a strong woman… If he didn’t do right by you, pray about it, ask God to work it out and you continue to be your son’s support and Love.

  • http://bossip Shawn Jones

    She’s sometype of DJ and has a website on Sandra’s post on her and tank whatevea


  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/064236327f23f88fa968f7d101ec70f1?s=80 Twanne

    Uhhh Ohhhhh … i see im not gonna be the bad guy of this THREAD …….. but dont worry …
    I will sprinkle a insult and JOKE in here somewhere …….. LoL

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/064236327f23f88fa968f7d101ec70f1?s=80 Twanne

    Not to start nothing ….. BUT

    Notice how i said BUT……. LoL

    I was waiting for you to say GOD in there some where ….. cuz when you at a altar and a priest is preasent .. your professin your love BEFORE GOD ….. and others are in attendance … but he makes his promise before GOD ………..

    Besides that …. you can let me hit it til he marry you …… A favor for a FAVOR baby …LoL

  • Tasha

    tamk is a terrible person and a liar i feel sorry he tells zena he gon marry her and lies thats why he lives wit a girl and not a woman tank you are a damn OLD male cougar

  • black barbie

    i know him and he a BIG LIAR and a cheat he was with that dj and begged to have his baby –he cheated on his first wife with ZENA and told her he was seperated –he still gets with zena even tho he has a live in girl friend beccause he know that zena in love and guess what he calls her names behind closed doors–he aslo got another woman preg but she got rid of it he is a screw up and a lie

  • tyty

    he is 36—hes a MALE COUGAR but has the mind of a 12 year old –i feel sorry for all the kids and all the babay mamas


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  • http://bossip ssquared

    Well, I sure dont blame her for speaking out. Yea it may have been immature on both of their part, but he started it and if I was in here shoes I woul have responded at least once myself. Now to those who says she writes and speaks well. She speaks well, yes, but write well, no. There were a couple of periods where there should have been commas. And there were several incomplete sentences. ot judging her cause I am sure she was writing during her moment, but you all that commented wasn’t. Get it together people. Education is a must!

  • http://bossip ssquared

    See…here is my proofread copy…I messed up too, lol.

    Well, I sure dont blame her for speaking out. Yea, it may have been immature on both of their parts, but he started it and if I was in her shoes, I would have responded at least once myself. Now to those who says she writes and speaks well. She speaks well, yes, but write well, no. There were a couple of periods where there should have been commas. And there were several incomplete sentences. Not judging her, cause I am sure she was writing during her moment, but you all that commented, wasn’t. Get it together people. Education is a must!

  • Ms.EJ

    Greetings to ALL

    If someone is defaming your character or making you out to be someone that you are not would you not speak up for yourself? I know that I would. It is extremely hurtful when one puts out lies, and to the WORLD at that. I by far do not think acted or responded in a way that was immature. It was he (Tank) that chose to humiliate her in a public platform (just like Usher and his song “Papers). This is the mother of his child at least have respect for her in that aspect.

  • kat

    im not suprised he did this ask his wife what he put her thru = Hell, he lives with a young GIRL which makes him a cougar. And you PIG its the cougars that come to your shows -that support you, I know i wont anymore you a GIRL tank not even a man

  • Ms.EJ

    @WORDTOTHEWISE- *waves hello* How are you Ms.Lady?

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  • anewme

    I mean really……does anyone give a damn? Seriously!

  • Trenchee

    Maybe you “deserve” it.

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