Sextra: Who Loves Gemini Lovin’?

My husband is a Gemini and I’m a Sagg. I think we get along so well because we’re not very emotional people. I mean don’t get me wrong we both have emotional moments but not very often. He definitely does have that mean “twin” that likes to come out and play and it’s not pretty. So I could see why him and an emotional woman who’s easily hurt or takes sh*t personal would not be a good fit. That never bothered me because when he gets that way, he’s by himself. I’ll leave the room, go out to the coffehouse or window shop if he’s being stank. I won’t accept it and he knows that now so he’ll leave sometimes when he gets that way. We have a really cool way of communicating, I love that about him … plus he’s handsome so that helps! I love me some him. – Jaqui, 33

My ex is Gemini and it was really hard to let go. She was very charismatic, witty and endearing and I don’t really believe that anyone will love me the way she did. The problem with us was she couldn’t separate her emotions long enough to rationally think things through and I couldn’t understand it – that could be because I’m an Aquarius. I’m a man who’s grounded in logic and she was very emotional. When we had fights she would harp and nag about all the things I did wrong and how it upset her but she was never willing to admit her own wrongdoings. Then, when I thought we finally squashed everything a moved on, she would go right back to the last fight and the fight before that … and the fight we had two months ago. I don’t know, as much as we loved each other the bad times outweighed the good. And that was unfortunate because she’s a good person. We just didn’t work. – Anthony, 32

I’m a Gemini and I know I’m crazy … in a good way. I think people find my personality refreshing. I’m a good person but you should never mistake my kindness for weakness and if I feel like you’re trying to walk all over me, you can forget it – it’s over and I have nothing else to say to you. I can admit that I am moody at times but who isn’t? I’m harmless I wouldn’t hurt a fly. Anybody who knows me will tell you that I love hard and if I got your back, I got your back. All I ask is that you have mine in return, you know? With Geminis it’s a give and take thing. If the giving and taking are equal, we’re happy. – Marley, 28

I don’t know much about zodiacs but I am a Gemini and I guess I’m true to the traits. Sometimes a woman will ask me, “when’s your birthday? Oh, you’re a Gemini…” and they make this face like they don’t want to like me but they really do. I don’t know. I think it’s because I’m funny. I keep people laughing. There’s nothing more vibrant than a woman’s smile. If you can make her laugh, she’ll do anything for you – Marilyn Monroe said that. Random, I know. I read it somewhere and it stuck with me. Now I’ve made it my daily duty to make all the ladies smile! I just want people to be happy and if I can be a part of that happiness, I’m happy too. I think people, in general, should not get all caught up in what’s wrong and be happy with what’s right. Life is too short to be mad all the damn time. Lighten up, you dig me? – Charles, 29

Shouts out to all the Geminis! Happy Birthday to you all!

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