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Dej Loaf’s Girlfriend Speaks On Being Cheated On, Claims Lil Durk Relationship Is A Fake

Earlier this week we reported about “new boos” Dej Loaf and Lil Durk… but there is at least one person who isn’t buying their new romance, Dej’s former girlfriend Angeleah Speights aka Aye Redd, who spoke with BOSSIP exclusively about her relationship with Dej. Speights also revealed that she was with the rapper all weekend and they continue to love one another.

“They’re not together they’re not a couple,” Speights told BOSSIP when asked about Dej’s relationship with Durk. “They don’t f**k around at all. I think they’re trying to make it seem like they’re together. I don’t know what it is but it’s fake.”

Questions about Dej and Speights relationship were buzzing after she posted this message:

And Dej posted a message afterward that seemed to correspond.

According to Speights, she joined Dej in Atlanta over the weekend for her performances at the A3C Festival, and says the Instagram post that Dej seemed to take offense to wasn’t even about her.

“No,” Angeleah told BOSSIP when asked whether the “closet” comment was intended for her famous ex. “I really just posted that. We didn’t get into it. My post was really just about fake people but she took it the wrong way. Closet can go for everything.”

“If I want to say something to Dej I can say it to her face because I have access to her. I don’t have to go through Instagram and she hates that type of isht anyway so I wouldn’t do that, knowing she was going to get mad, but I didn’t think she would take it like that until next thing I know I’m on a blog site. We don’t follow each other on Instagram, just Snapchat. She called me and she was like ‘See this is what I’m talking about, everything is all over the place. Congratulations.’ When you’re the one that posted something?”

“If I post something people don’t say nothing,” Aye Redd explained to BOSSIP. “If she posts something they’re going to feed into it. My post today she posted something right after me that made everybody think ‘oh they’re talking about each other, they’re throwing shade.’ I was just with her last night. It was cool. It was just like obviously you got mad at my post so you just want to counteract what I said.”

Do you agree that it was petty for Dej Loaf to respond the way she did on Instagram?

Hit the flip for more on the relationship between Dej and Angeleah.


25-year-old Speight revealed she’s known Dej, born Deja Trimble, for years because the two share Detroit roots.

“My best friend was managing her at one point in time, my sister and Dej sister were best friends,’ Redd revealed to BOSSIP. “We started dating last year, we just became really good friends,” Angeleah told BOSSIP. “I never dated a girl before her. She was the first girlfriend I ever had.”

“I was definitely turned out,” Aye Redd tells BOSSIP of her baeship. “I was 100% aware of my decision, everything I’ve done and who I’ve been with, I don’t point any fingers at nobody for what’s happened with my life or what is going on with my life. I don’t regret our relationship at all. I just wish I… How can I say this? I feel like it was never put out there or came out of my mouth but it was obvious we were dating, it wasn’t a secret. I was with her every day, for every appearance, every performance, every time she was on set.”

Unfortunately things took a turn for the worse in March.

“Back in March we ended up breaking up due to infidelities,” Aye Redd told BOSSIP.”I was cheated on with her stylist Kara. That’s not a secret, everybody knows it. It was on blog sites. It was humiliating for me, I was really hurt. I never received a sorry type of thing from her. No kind of sorry on social media. I was done. At the time we were living together. She went about her way and I went about my way.”

Cold world right?

But Dej recently reached back out to Aye Redd in hopes of a reconciliation:

“Recently she reached out to me to apologize and said she was sorry,” Speights explained to BOSSIP. “She said ‘I’m perfect,’ the grass wasn’t greener on the other side, that type of thing.”

Speights says she decided to do the interview because no one has heard the truth from her own mouth before.

“I don’t want to downplay Dej, but it’s a lot of things that have been posted up — but don’t take anything from me that didn’t come out of my mouth.”

Hit the flip for more on her motivations and a gang of pictures of Dej and Angeleah!

Speights says she’s angry because people are under the impression she is a “bitter ex” when Dej is the one who reached out to her to reconcile.

“Now I’m the bad guy,” Angeleah said. “Because you felt a certain type of way about what I said. I’m really confused. I’m involved with somebody with insecurities and it makes me look like I’m bitter. I’m not about to sit here close mouthed like I’m some bitter ex-girlfriend because that’s not who I am.”

In fact, Speights says she’s been with Dej AND Durk recently, when the pair were in the studio together.

“Yes I was there when he posted that pic,” Speights reveals. “It’s funny like all that is going on. We just recently got back cool and I was just in the studio with her and Durk like all three of us until 9’o’clock in the morning.

“I’m not bitter at all. I was happy, I was living my life like I was supposed to, I was getting over being cheated on like any girl would. You came back for me. You could’ve left me alone.

Speights is also quick to point out she doesn’t have any qualms with Dej aside from her inability to be honest about their relationship.

“She’s single she can date whoever she wants, but you’re not going to make it seem like I’m bitter,” Speights told BOSSIP “We’ve been together the last two weeks. I feel like I am who I am, people obviously know my name and people need to hear it come out of my mouth seriously. That was my girlfriend, she cheated on me with her stylist and she wanted to reconnect and we did. Now they trying to play it like her and Durk are together.”

Speight told BOSSIP she just wants to make it clear she has no feelings of bitterness, but she has already been betrayed by Dej once.

“I just hate they try to make it like I’m the bitter ex-girlfriend. No I am the girlfriend who got cheated on i’m not bitter. And I’m the girlfriend you wanted back but you don’t know how to deal with the public. That’s the end of the story. I’m not bitter, I’m not desperate. I do my own thing. I’m not on her. When I post stuff she is literally never on my page. I was just with her at the A3C Festival in Atlanta, if I post some shit it’s to feel better.”

“I never been in no type of relationship where people are going at me so hard like that. Everybody asking what’s going on with Durk, nothing. Whether she wants to promote the song or not, he’s acting like they’re really together.”

So what does Speights want? Respect and some degree of loyalty. Hit the flip for more.

“I’m just tired of hearing ‘you mad Dej with Durk’ when it’s a lie and you sleeping with me,” Angeleah told BOSSIP.” So yeah, let’s clear the air.”

“I wouldn’t be having to doing this interview if she would just open her mouth and take up for me,” Aye Redd told BOSSIP of her famous love.

But how much of her refusal to speak up about Angeleah has to do with her hesitancy to admit she is gay? A lot, if you hear Speights tell it.

“I feel like once somebody gets to a certain level of fame the real them is exposed and sometimes they don’t want to expose the real them,” the aspiring actress told BOSSIP.”They want people to believe what they put off. She has said she’s not gay. Maybe she don’t want to come back on her word.”

“I just don’t want people to think I’m a liar. Or that I’m spreading rumors or whatever the situation may be. I feel like for somebody I’m in love and you in love with me, you take up for that person, I feel like you have they back and I feel like she’s not doing that and I wouldn’t have to be doing this interview or having this conversation if she would just open her mouth and take up for me if she know what’s real and what’s not but she probably never will anyway. I gotta look out for myself now I can’t keep looking out for everybody else.”

Dej may be mum about Redd right now, but that hasn’t always been the case. The pair used to regularly feature one another on their respective Instagram pages.

“You notice she stopped doing that,” Aye Redd asked BOSSIP. ” Like I said the more fame you get, the more fake you got to be out there.”

With the history this pair has shared we have a hard time believing that it’s over for good.

“”I definitely don’t trust her,” Aye Redd says of her famous ex. “How can I? I don’t know.”

But she confirms the love is still there.

“I love her, she loves me,” Angeleah tells BOSSIP. “Definitely.”

So how long will Speights and Loaf remain on the outs? It may be awhile, because Angeleah says she wants a public apology:

“Things always change, the only way things will change is if I had a public apology. I mean you cheated on me out in the open, and this isht comes out and you acting like you don’t f**k with me.”

“I just want some respect. I find it very fake you can clear the air about any rumor about you but when it comes to me you try to act like it’s not real and it never happened. It’s out there. If it wasn’t out there I wouldn’t care, it would be like our secret but I feel like you can’t leave me hanging like you don’t f**k with me. You definitely f**k with me. that’s what bothers me the most. I don’t want nothing from her, I don’t want anything from her I don’t even want a friendship with her because I feel like a friend wouldn’t even do nothing like that. It’s nothing. I don’t want anything from her I just want to clear my name.

Wow. She really said a mouthful. Do you think she’ll get her public apology?

Instagram/Angeleah Speights

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