Yeah We Said It: Marrying A Baller May Be Worth It

- By Bossip Staff

Lets just face: Most men rank looks high on their list of priorities. We’ve all seen it, a nice guy with a not-so-sweet Mrs who has a flawless face, beautiful body or even better, the ever-so-deadly combination of both. If that tail’s right, he’s there all night. Ms. Thing doesn’t have to cook, clean or even be able/willing to teach the kids how to read. She’s his arm piece. She makes him feel like he has what he deserves in life: a woman with bankable looks. Everywhere they walk he’s the envy of most men in the room — or at least that’s what he thinks. Most important, to him the possible sacrifices of a clean house, home cooked meals and educated kids are worth it. He won.

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  • bre

    Is it security when they hit you with a prenup?

    • G.M.

      for the guy atleast…as long as the woman is with the man and only him, she’ll get the benefits that come with that relationship, when it ends,so do those benefits…its like a job, they give u a paycheck as long as u work for them and when ur fired or quit the checks stop coming

    • SMH

      @GM: couldn’t have said it better myself.

    • Salina

      My friends told me about — SearchingM illionaire* C0- M —–told It’s the be’st pl’ace to me’et Milli’onaire si’ngles. It is the first and best club for wealthy people and their admirers. D’ating CEOs, professional athletes, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, professional models and cheerleaders, and even Hollywood celebrities is an easy experience there…you don’t have to be rich ,but you can meet one there. 😉
      nice experience——-

  • smartandsexy360

    I agree with you 100%

  • TI

    Can anyone tell me why ppl still get married?

    I’m at a lost!

    • chaka1

      I got married for the first time last year. I did it because we share the same goals and want a family.

  • TI

    Huh? ^^^^^

    You get STD’s if you don’t use protection!


  • BigTyCizzle

    I can appreciate the entertainment aspect of these stories but they leave out so much causing our men and women to think this is fact which it is not… It’s shameful how we’ve sacrificed our integrity and watered down our existence. Europeans wanted to strip us of our self worth and it has worked.

    • chaka1

      Huh? What do Europeans have to do with this? Are you supposed to get a boat and go back to Africa?

  • ya boy

    “At least when he left she got a condo and car.” …I cried laughing off of that one line slick line…not too shabby.

  • hell naw

    If this post ain’t ignorant I don’t know what is. Women fight to be leaders and havr respect everyday. Now u wanna tell them to be dumb and settle. I respect a bustle but at the same time GET A JOB AND FIND YOUR EQUAL PARTNER!

  • wisdom

    That’s the price women pay for being with a baller. You have to deal with constant drama & bullsh*t.

  • Jay

    This is exactly what happens when you see the nerdy guy you made fun of in high school show up at your 10/15/20 year reunion with a super model and a company as successful as Microsoft. Women will sacrifice looks for security any day and we can’t fault them for that.

  • Tony Redds

    Whoever thinks that reality TV is real is an idiot. It really is a degradation to society.


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    Who has the biggest nose Lala or Melo? She is so ugly but I guess he couldn’t get a pretty light/white Latina with Spanish features and real hair.

  • dana

    Why are all the gays trying to get married?

    Married isn’t a good deal especially for females that have to help their husbands provide a home to cohabit in. It does make sense to get a man that can provide for you and his children. Preggers now that’s something I
    dont want to be!

    Do you want a rich cheater broke cheater hubby? I got my masters degree on his cheating azz. He told me I needed to find something to do with my time (he was out cheating) 🙂

    • Yeah. . .I said it!

      “Do you want a rich cheater broke cheater hubby? I got my masters degree on his cheating azz.”

      LOL! That’s what I did!

  • http://google beauty

    Who wants to be wifed based on looks, when it all fades bet on being replaced before you can spell oil of olay lols, get your own good life and enjoy. Looks fade not well managed bank accounts.

  • Mi Mi

    I recently divorced a self-made man of pretty good finances and I had to cook, clean, raise both our children and dealt with his “manly” ways (til I knew it was the right time to go) again he had “pretty good finances” not millions but building financially thru Real Estate so I say this -YES THOSE “MILLIONS” ARE WORTH IT ALL because men with okay money put women through alot so why not be comfortable while you’re sittin pretty or drankin your wine whinin to your girlfriends & family! Women out here go thru worst and I mean “worst stuff” with everyday men with little to No money. Personally I rather have the money means to bounce back in in the end!

    • G.M.

      exactly…men and women are always gonna get bored & cheat, especially if we’re financially stable cuz sooo many women want a man with money, power or fame if not all three…broke n199az cheat, rich men cheat, but atleast u can go on free trips across the world, having shoppin sprees galore on his dime, if he allows that…i agree with u, its just choosing the lesser of two evils but i dont like y’all women takin us men money, but i understand, its about survival, u catch a n199a sleepin, then wake his a$$ up i guess lol XD

  • Ti

    @ Uhh yea ok

    I BET mena ren’t hounding you everyday! I BET MY LIFE!

    And if they are,they are in the hood!
    \Don’t give yourself unwarrented credit!
    Real guys can see through that!


    • Uhh yeah ok

      Who said I was talking bout myself? And if I was what’s that tid bit to you? Nothing.. so BET ON.

  • Uhh yeah ok

    So you handle that and “taking over the world” was a metaphor.

    If a woman wants to do that good for her but I like doing what I want, when I want and I’m not waiting on some egomaniac to pay for it.

    They’re taking about marriage so wouldn’t a child be a good thing and natural progression instead of a way to trap the man’s finances? Why would a woman even have to “trap” if she had her own.

    It doesn’t have to be a lot but going after somebody solely for money as a female is tacky. Pretty chicks can pretty much get whatever they want on their own. What’s a man good for if you don’t love him?

    If you’re comfortable and happy then great you found a situation that works for you. All i’m saying is life really isn’t that hard and you can do whatever you want with or without using other people based on superficial reasons.


    Married Athletes are the DUMBEST Dudes on the planet.

  • Ti


    10000% co~sign!


  • Ti

    UUhh yea bet!

    Not only you!

    All other women who THINK that we are hounding them!
    FYI~ Guys that have it going on,ARE HOUNDED!

  • fly guy

    Why you think woman get with guys like diddy. Because they would rather have him for 4 or 5 years spending his millions than to have a average man for a life time.

  • dana

    My married female employees of all races and nationalites seem to be always crying; he wont help at home, he stop paying bills. They are broke borrowings money (employment violation) , driving clunkers, kids school on the phone, husband leaves home on friday comes back on sunday. Their creditors and bill collectors calling. The ladies make good money. They bring it to the job and are systematically fire for creating drama at work, missing to many days or poor performance. As they are being walked off the property they screaming please please give me another chance I gotta feed my kids. MARRIAGE and families doesn’t seem to be a good deal for many females. I think females in love or otherwise should try to get the best deal because they are most like to end up with their children. One lady said gets $50 week for child ssnacks for het son. WTF…. thats like lunch money and one after school activity.

  • keasha

    I have no problem with women marrying a pro athlete. but why don’t try promoting women gaining financial security through ambition and hard work. i’m not knocking those who have married pro-ballers but teach women that if you want Versace, Gucci, travel around and want to live a particular lifestyle then work for it. Ain’t nothing like having your own. No one can take it away from you or control you with it if you own it.

  • lively10

    This is unrealistic, and the numbers of women marry for security is really low, so I would give this advice to young women. I would say get a college education in math or science, start a business, and become your own baller. Most of the women as beautiful as they are get cheated on, get a disease, or he leaves for a younger model. Men are visual, and you are just selling your soul to the devil for security.

  • realtalk

    Ok ok hear me out im so amazed at how so many white ppl and now even illegal aliens have so many disrespectful things to say about blacks on these blogs. something has to be done about this! black ppl stand up !!! if the cracker say it they should not have the luxury of hiding behing a key pad! there should be a way to get the idinetity. these blog site should be held more accountable and if we let it slide not only can it affect us but the kids as well so wat r we gone do let it ride or will u at least think of the kids. in the bible when God was warth at someone what did he do THINK he turned them white

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