‘Some Of Us Have Been Living A Lie’ Tamar Braxton Finally Explains Why She’s Divorcing Vince

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Tamar Braxton Explains Vincent Herbert Divorce

Tamar Braxton is finally breaking her silence on her divorce to Vincent Herbert. As previously reported Tamar suddenly filed for divorce from her hubby just one month shy of their 10-year anniversary and after that, her mother Evelyn Braxton fueled rumors that Vince was abusive in the marriage.

Now Tamar’s finally speaking out on her decision to file and her message is a MOUTHFUL. According to Tamar she’s living “God’s purpose” and she decided not to stay married for face value anymore.

“Sometimes we stay ”married”for face value or to say ”we did it”🙌🏾but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary!” wrote Tamar. “You can say he did this,she did that,I put up with”this”& I’ve suffered & endured”this”for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2 stay,” she added.

“We get so caught up in WE are”winning”in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.”

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Thank God this is HIS purpose..yes I just dropped #bluebirdofhappiness &Tamar &Vince is coming back on Thursday but on GOD this has NOTHING to do with ME or a JOB!!.here is the thing,& MY truth..you don’t have to like me & while I’m woke,I can see that most of you don’t now..even when you did.🤔something has changed w/her..but it’s ok, because I don’t..well,didn’t like me either.I told myself I would do whatever it took to keep my family together,to see a smile on someone who has seen us smile on their face hoping we could offer them hope,faith,Love& dignity that I️ once possessed. But the truth is all of those things are NOT within the marriage of Tamar & Vince🤦🏽‍♀️ ..at least not anymore.married people who are reading will know what I mean.Sometimes we stay”married”for face value or to say”we did it”🙌🏾but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary! You can say he did this,she did that,I️ put up with”this”& I’ve suffered & endured”this”for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2 stay🙇🏽‍♀️we get so caught up in WE are”winning”in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I️ decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.I wanted to have a relationship.Someone to share my/our dreams,our successes, our failures,our past,present & future with..& not finding out shit online🤦🏽‍♀️..some of us 🙋🏽have been living a LIE!..& sometimes when things R shared,what’s NOT being surfaced is that he has one or several girlfriends,or she’s never home,or he’s very general when he speaks,or “this doesn’t sound like him”🤔 or he’s so busy lately!!.etc.etc..u have to think to yourself?When is enough enough? Is it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like glue?Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are “our” friends? Or, we fight but that’s “passion”❌ let’s get deep for a second..we can argue & u can tell me to gtf out of “your”house when I’m the house of cards?None of this is ok..& while I’m not pushing anyone out of the door..I’m just telling you what has pushed me out of mine!That LAST time was the LAST time🙏🏽

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Woah, did you peep how she says Vince told her to “get the f*** out his house” and has friends that she doesn’t have access to???

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Poor Tamar.

What do YOU think about Tamar’s explanation for their split???

Tamar was spotted at the Soul Train Awards this weekend, marking the first time she’s been seen publicly since her divorce filing.

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Doesn’t she look happy???

See more post-divorce Tamar on the flip.

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amar also performed at the awards.

We’ll have to wait till the Soul Train Awards air November 26 8P/7C to see what she sang.

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