Put On Blast: Antonio Cromartie’s Ex-Fiancée Has Written A Book On The Jet’s CB Womanizing Ways

- By Bossip Staff

Wow…this certainly sounds like it’s going to be interesting:

Jet cornerback Antonio Cromartie, legendary for scoring off the field — siring nine kids with eight women in six states — is getting blitzed by ex-fiancée Rhonda Patterson, who has written a damning memoir about their rocky relationship.

She depicts him as a champ in bed but a cheat who dumped her days before their $200,000 wedding and left her to give birth to his sixth child alone.
“Love, Intercepted: A Tale of Football, Falling and Failing in Love” is her account of their on-and-off relationship, but Patterson never uses Cromartie’s name, referring to him only as “he.” “It goes nameless because the story is bigger than him,” Patterson told The Post. “This is not a book to bash him. It’s meant to help women avoid making the same mistakes I did.”

She doesn’t blame Cromartie, noting he was raised poor by a single mom — a “less-than-ideal environment to learn how to be a man.” In a romance that started on Facebook in 2005, she says, Cromartie lacked conversational skills, but communicated between the sheets. “I will give it to the man — he’s talented, well endowed, and . . . it was truly the best sex I’d ever had,” she writes. “He was one of those lovers who would caress you, stroke your hair . . . look you in the eyes and ask you to have his child. I thought his asking me to bear his child meant he loved me.”

Patterson, a corporate lawyer and former Miss Black North Carolina, says she was blinded by his charm and lifestyle. She recalls he invited her to a party to celebrate his being drafted by the San Diego Chargers but acted odd. “I received a text message from him explaining that he needed his ‘space’ at the party and that I should leave him alone. That hurt.” She later learned he had another girlfriend at the party.

Patterson writes that she was bombarded with reports of his seductions and affairs — “rumors of more babies on the way, STDs, and secret trips.” Once, she snooped in his room. “I came across other women’s jewelry, greeting cards he’d received from other lovers, and sex paraphernalia that we had never used. I was furious.”

Despite her doubts, when Cromartie proposed, she said yes. A week later, she found out she was pregnant. He already had four other kids. She details how he canceled their 2008 wedding in Atlanta, nine days before she was to walk the aisle as the singer Fantasia performed her single “I Believe.”

He later kicked her out of his San Diego home, and she gave birth in Charlotte, NC. “I was amazed,” she said. “He couldn’t pick up the phone to check on me.”
Cromartie was busy. He fathered two more kids out of wedlock, married model Terricka Cason, and had his ninth.

Dayyuuummmm. SMH at this one…so they met on Facebook (SMH) in 2005 and he had already had 4 kids…and he had five more kids in five years. Hmmmm…

We can’t even get over this guy on Hard Knocks trying to remember the names of all his kids….


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  • My2cent

    That n*gga is pure TRASH. I wouldn’t let that dirty d*ck within 50 feet of my cooch!

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  • #teambreezy

    WTF the comment CB Womanzing needs to go….shoulda said something like Floyd Mayweather,Charlie Sheen or Ike Turner.Chris Brown was 19 at the time this is grown men that we are talkin bout.

    • MacMoon

      U a silly bytch…nobody talkin bout chris bown.

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  • purple love

    @#teambreezy cb stands 4 corner back.

    • dcmbklyn

      Some ppl really need to stay in their lanes…..CB (chris brown) HAHA

  • Amber

    Hes one of the dumbest blackmen ive ever come across.

  • Sexmoneymurder

    This goes to show you most of these b*tches screaming about degrees are just as easily seduced by money and good d*ck as a non educated broad women aren’t sh*t period black white yellow if you have power p*ssy will be thrown at you

    • truth be told (the original)

      For every woman who throws herself at him there are a million more who are not even checking for him or what he makes for a living but an intelligent person would know this…

    • Ruby

      True Dat

  • if anything be noble

    I hope she’s not blaming him for her choices. She’s not remedial. She’s a corporate lawyer. Didn’t take no CSI 10 member team to put all the pieces of that situation together. Take your time next time. Use your brain-brain and not your heart-brain and figure out just who you’re dealing with. This is the man who called his child ‘Daughter.’ I doubt he’s all that hard to decode.

  • Tm30

    I don’t know about this situation here. If dude already had 5 kids, which I going out on a limb to say they’re not from the same woman, there is nothing that would persuade me to get involved with that situation. IMO, the time he wants to spend with me should be spent with his kids and their mother. Seriously, how can a man be an effective father with a demanding career, new wife and 9 children by several different women? It’s not fair to children to have a part time father. The only good thing out of this is the mother was smart enough to get an education and not depend solely on a man to take care of her for 18 years.

  • kslim1

    He is disgusting, and she is stupid. Book smarts don’t always equate to street smarts. The woman who married him has issues to. I hate beasts; all they’re good for is slinging the dinger and making illegitimate children. Being dyck-whipped nowadays is not cute, and I would NEVER date a guy from FACEBOOK.

    • ReALiSt!! ... I'm NAT TURNER ToDaY WiTh A UZI!!

      STFU bytch!!

  • anewme

    Hold on wait a minute, she found out about his lifestyle before he proposed to her, and she still said yes?! She does not need to write a book, everyone already knows he’s a dog!

  • if anything be noble

    I’m just saying… while she’s psychoanalyzing his behavior and seeing why he does he does and acts like he acts (poor/no daddy) she needs to be psychoanalyzing herself and seeing why she chose to get involved with this man in the first place. All HIS stuff is outside of herself. She can’t control what’s outside herself but she can most definitely control what she lets in. Own your choices and decipher why your emotional life and personal choices don’t add up to the choices you made to obtain corporate success and to be Miss Black North Carolina because there is a serious disconnect going on here between your business and personal lives.

    • Big Ryde

      The best statement on here so far!

    • derek.d


      She killin’ me analyzing what kind of a man he was based on his coming from a single parent household… Yet, she still chose to spread her legs and get knocked up without being married! Insane.

    • Moe

      You are so on point with that statement!

    • Tori84

      CHURCH!!! I’ve couldn’t have said it better myself.

    • dcmbklyn

      Let the church say AMEN…..

  • Kim Kardashian (in Dallas for the Superbowl!)

    This here is just proof that the smartest bytches in the room can actually be the dumbest!

  • Cheeky

    Um gee, so she went into the relationship knowing he was a professional athlete, a serial philanderer and had four kids by four different women? And she’s shocked he dumped her for another woman and left her to have their child on her own? I guess it doesn’t matter how many degrees a woman has, she can still be dumb as hell when it comes to men.



  • KeepItRealInCali

    @ Kim Kardashian (in Dallas for the Superbowl!)

    LMMFAO!!!! ^^^^^^^^ You made me spit my coffee out this morning!

  • Kim Kardashian (in Dallas for the Superbowl!)

    And no i wont be buyin’ your book, wtf kind of advice can you give?

  • jay32

    She is just a gold digger scorned.She’s a smart girl and she should’ve been smart enough to know that a man still in his 20’s with 4 kids by different women is probably someone you should avoid.She was blinded by the money and the sex..It just proves that women will do anything for a man with money.Any woman that dates a pro athlete is a gold digger in my eyes.



  • Theworldkeepsturnin

    That ‘I know my love can change/fix him’ mentality will get you caught up everytime. SMH

  • if anything be noble

    @ Mrs. Rance, it also fits into the Aids story since she should be dissecting herself rather than dissecting him. (Folks at the government need to be “studying” all of US society instead of spending all the money they spend “studying” Black people.) I don’t know what’s in this book but I hope it details her own life and her own childhood and her own issues rather than all of Antonio Cromartie because she is where she is in all areas of her life — good OR bad — because of who SHE is — not because of who AC is. He recently just walked onto the scene. But her stage was already set.

  • derek.d



    I’ve found a new word to add to the collection.

  • Marilyn

    Women, please smarten up. If a man has a baby momma that he didn’t already marry, then he’s probably NOT going to marry you if you get pregnant. You’re not that special to him, but you ARE special. Get with a man who will marry you and cherish you before the babies come. You are lovable. Give your babies a chance at life.


    Okay she is a corporate lawyer and ex-beauty pageant winner. I guess love is blind because I heard him talk before and I was NOT impressed with his vocabulary limited ability. But I guess some women are really in it for the money – disgusting!


    For the record This is a great black history month as every month is for me. I do me and I am proud to be black, if I’m not out there acting a damn fool and respecting myself and my family then it’s a good day – I don’t have to wait for the man appointed black history month.

  • Marquis de Sade

    Ooops! *CULTURED*

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  • jfizzle

    She is worst than the other hood rats, this broad is an attorney so should is educated she said the dude had no conversation skills c’mon son


    she was only with him because he played football cmon on she even said he couldnt barely communicate.

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